Gabriel Mizrahi
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Yeah, and if she doesn't, then that would be a sign that this woman probably can't empathize with you or engage in this conversation. And at that point, I would probably say to myself, okay... I'm probably not going to get anywhere. Time to pull back. This person needs to figure this out in her own way, on her own timeline. I'm not the person she wants to hear this from.
Yeah, and if she doesn't, then that would be a sign that this woman probably can't empathize with you or engage in this conversation. And at that point, I would probably say to myself, okay... I'm probably not going to get anywhere. Time to pull back. This person needs to figure this out in her own way, on her own timeline. I'm not the person she wants to hear this from.
And then it's up to you to work through this stuff on your own.
And then it's up to you to work through this stuff on your own.
And then it's up to you to work through this stuff on your own.
So I think what we're saying is you're allowed to not bring this up because in a way it's not your business. At the same time, she made it your business by accepting your invitation to visit and impacting you with her behavior. In addition to the fact that you are friends and so you do genuinely care about her.
So I think what we're saying is you're allowed to not bring this up because in a way it's not your business. At the same time, she made it your business by accepting your invitation to visit and impacting you with her behavior. In addition to the fact that you are friends and so you do genuinely care about her.
So I think what we're saying is you're allowed to not bring this up because in a way it's not your business. At the same time, she made it your business by accepting your invitation to visit and impacting you with her behavior. In addition to the fact that you are friends and so you do genuinely care about her.
So my feeling is you could bring it up with her, but I would not jump straight to suggesting that she has an unhealthy relationship with food or I would definitely not suggest that her weight is possibly fracturing her marriage because a. like we said, very sensitive and B, you don't know actually what's happening in her marriage. There might be so many things going on.
So my feeling is you could bring it up with her, but I would not jump straight to suggesting that she has an unhealthy relationship with food or I would definitely not suggest that her weight is possibly fracturing her marriage because a. like we said, very sensitive and B, you don't know actually what's happening in her marriage. There might be so many things going on.
So my feeling is you could bring it up with her, but I would not jump straight to suggesting that she has an unhealthy relationship with food or I would definitely not suggest that her weight is possibly fracturing her marriage because a. like we said, very sensitive and B, you don't know actually what's happening in her marriage. There might be so many things going on.
So it's a little presumptuous to just say, I think it's because of this one thing that I'm seeing. And I definitely would not jump to recommending that she go on Ozempic or whatever. All of those topics are way down the line and they are up to her.
So it's a little presumptuous to just say, I think it's because of this one thing that I'm seeing. And I definitely would not jump to recommending that she go on Ozempic or whatever. All of those topics are way down the line and they are up to her.
So it's a little presumptuous to just say, I think it's because of this one thing that I'm seeing. And I definitely would not jump to recommending that she go on Ozempic or whatever. All of those topics are way down the line and they are up to her.
I think she's going to have to do the work to figure out what role this food thing and this menu thing is playing in her life and how it's echoing in her other relationships. Your mission, if you choose to accept it, is to just open the door as a friend and see if she wants to walk through it.
I think she's going to have to do the work to figure out what role this food thing and this menu thing is playing in her life and how it's echoing in her other relationships. Your mission, if you choose to accept it, is to just open the door as a friend and see if she wants to walk through it.
I think she's going to have to do the work to figure out what role this food thing and this menu thing is playing in her life and how it's echoing in her other relationships. Your mission, if you choose to accept it, is to just open the door as a friend and see if she wants to walk through it.
I think it's a very fair point. I also think that this particular conversation, like we keep saying, is very complicated. And so it does require more sensitivity and more care than one that is, hey, you were rude and I want to talk about it. But to your point, Jordan, if it's her business to bring it up because it impacted her, then her best bet might be to speak mostly to her own experience.
I think it's a very fair point. I also think that this particular conversation, like we keep saying, is very complicated. And so it does require more sensitivity and more care than one that is, hey, you were rude and I want to talk about it. But to your point, Jordan, if it's her business to bring it up because it impacted her, then her best bet might be to speak mostly to her own experience.
I think it's a very fair point. I also think that this particular conversation, like we keep saying, is very complicated. And so it does require more sensitivity and more care than one that is, hey, you were rude and I want to talk about it. But to your point, Jordan, if it's her business to bring it up because it impacted her, then her best bet might be to speak mostly to her own experience.