Gabriel Mizrahi

Which is very much part of the problem here.

Which is very much part of the problem here.

Which is very much part of the problem here.

But I think the better question might be at what cost does my relationship with Brian and with his kids come for me? What am I willing to tolerate in order to be close with them? What do I have to overlook or forgive in order to do that?

But I think the better question might be at what cost does my relationship with Brian and with his kids come for me? What am I willing to tolerate in order to be close with them? What do I have to overlook or forgive in order to do that?

But I think the better question might be at what cost does my relationship with Brian and with his kids come for me? What am I willing to tolerate in order to be close with them? What do I have to overlook or forgive in order to do that?

Yeah. How does that make you feel? Because based on your letter and reading between the lines, I think it makes you feel not great. You're having to swallow a lot. You're having to stuff down so much anger and sadness and concern. You have to compromise on your integrity. You have to allow yourself to be the target of your son's irrational accusations and feelings.

Yeah. How does that make you feel? Because based on your letter and reading between the lines, I think it makes you feel not great. You're having to swallow a lot. You're having to stuff down so much anger and sadness and concern. You have to compromise on your integrity. You have to allow yourself to be the target of your son's irrational accusations and feelings.

Yeah. How does that make you feel? Because based on your letter and reading between the lines, I think it makes you feel not great. You're having to swallow a lot. You're having to stuff down so much anger and sadness and concern. You have to compromise on your integrity. You have to allow yourself to be the target of your son's irrational accusations and feelings.

Sounds like you're kind of a vehicle for his messy projections. Then when he gets what he wants, he flips the script. I mean, this is very confusing. It's awful. I just don't know how you do it. I don't know if I could do it. I don't think I could either. Look, only she can decide what price she's willing to pay here.

Sounds like you're kind of a vehicle for his messy projections. Then when he gets what he wants, he flips the script. I mean, this is very confusing. It's awful. I just don't know how you do it. I don't know if I could do it. I don't think I could either. Look, only she can decide what price she's willing to pay here.

Sounds like you're kind of a vehicle for his messy projections. Then when he gets what he wants, he flips the script. I mean, this is very confusing. It's awful. I just don't know how you do it. I don't know if I could do it. I don't think I could either. Look, only she can decide what price she's willing to pay here.

My concern is when Brian apparently made up a bunch of lies about her, she said that she caved not just so that she could have a relationship with her grandkids, but to quote unquote heal the family. And then afterwards she was like, what did I do? Like I sold my soul to the devil. So she is paying exactly this price you're describing.

My concern is when Brian apparently made up a bunch of lies about her, she said that she caved not just so that she could have a relationship with her grandkids, but to quote unquote heal the family. And then afterwards she was like, what did I do? Like I sold my soul to the devil. So she is paying exactly this price you're describing.

My concern is when Brian apparently made up a bunch of lies about her, she said that she caved not just so that she could have a relationship with her grandkids, but to quote unquote heal the family. And then afterwards she was like, what did I do? Like I sold my soul to the devil. So she is paying exactly this price you're describing.

Yes, I'm getting the sense that her remarkably high tolerance for Brian's crazy, for lack of a better word, and her ability to subordinate her own standards and needs to his, maybe to many other people's too, that is a huge variable here. This might be an opportunity for her to go, why do I do that? Do I want to keep doing that?

Yes, I'm getting the sense that her remarkably high tolerance for Brian's crazy, for lack of a better word, and her ability to subordinate her own standards and needs to his, maybe to many other people's too, that is a huge variable here. This might be an opportunity for her to go, why do I do that? Do I want to keep doing that?

Yes, I'm getting the sense that her remarkably high tolerance for Brian's crazy, for lack of a better word, and her ability to subordinate her own standards and needs to his, maybe to many other people's too, that is a huge variable here. This might be an opportunity for her to go, why do I do that? Do I want to keep doing that?

Am I really willing to live with these feelings to just keep things on an even keel and get what I want with his kids? You know, it's an interesting theme on today's episode.

Am I really willing to live with these feelings to just keep things on an even keel and get what I want with his kids? You know, it's an interesting theme on today's episode.