Gabriel Mizrahi

I can't just brush this off. I have powerful feelings for TC, who would be open to starting a relationship if I were actually available. He's floated the idea of a modified thruple, where I split my time between him and my husband. I've just started therapy, which in the long term will be very helpful.

I can't just brush this off. I have powerful feelings for TC, who would be open to starting a relationship if I were actually available. He's floated the idea of a modified thruple, where I split my time between him and my husband. I've just started therapy, which in the long term will be very helpful.

I'm sure he's found one who's compatible.

I'm sure he's found one who's compatible.

I'm sure he's found one who's compatible.

In the meantime, I'm a wreck. I want to be with TC, but I haven't mustered the courage to initiate a conversation with my husband. Despite everything, I do love him and don't want to hurt him. Complicating matters is that I depend on my husband for health insurance. I work for myself and am not able to purchase insurance on my own right now. I'm looking for full-time work to remedy that.

In the meantime, I'm a wreck. I want to be with TC, but I haven't mustered the courage to initiate a conversation with my husband. Despite everything, I do love him and don't want to hurt him. Complicating matters is that I depend on my husband for health insurance. I work for myself and am not able to purchase insurance on my own right now. I'm looking for full-time work to remedy that.

In the meantime, I'm a wreck. I want to be with TC, but I haven't mustered the courage to initiate a conversation with my husband. Despite everything, I do love him and don't want to hurt him. Complicating matters is that I depend on my husband for health insurance. I work for myself and am not able to purchase insurance on my own right now. I'm looking for full-time work to remedy that.

Do I stay in a relationship that's comfortable, but without physical connection? Or start anew, where the connection promises to be amazing, but there's no guarantee that it will last? Or do I entertain the idea of a modified thruple where my husband and I acknowledge our longtime roommate status, and I move forward with a romantic relationship with TC.

Do I stay in a relationship that's comfortable, but without physical connection? Or start anew, where the connection promises to be amazing, but there's no guarantee that it will last? Or do I entertain the idea of a modified thruple where my husband and I acknowledge our longtime roommate status, and I move forward with a romantic relationship with TC.

Do I stay in a relationship that's comfortable, but without physical connection? Or start anew, where the connection promises to be amazing, but there's no guarantee that it will last? Or do I entertain the idea of a modified thruple where my husband and I acknowledge our longtime roommate status, and I move forward with a romantic relationship with TC.

Signed, a conflicted side trying to confide that he's in love with this other guy when his hands are tied about having to hide because his claims, romantic, insurance, and otherwise, might be denied.

Signed, a conflicted side trying to confide that he's in love with this other guy when his hands are tied about having to hide because his claims, romantic, insurance, and otherwise, might be denied.

Signed, a conflicted side trying to confide that he's in love with this other guy when his hands are tied about having to hide because his claims, romantic, insurance, and otherwise, might be denied.

It's tough.

It's tough.

It's tough.

It's an interesting arrangement that they landed on, isn't it? They're giving themselves and each other permission to play, get their needs met elsewhere, which is a tacit acknowledgement that part of their marriage doesn't work and maybe this is the solution in some way.

It's an interesting arrangement that they landed on, isn't it? They're giving themselves and each other permission to play, get their needs met elsewhere, which is a tacit acknowledgement that part of their marriage doesn't work and maybe this is the solution in some way.

It's an interesting arrangement that they landed on, isn't it? They're giving themselves and each other permission to play, get their needs met elsewhere, which is a tacit acknowledgement that part of their marriage doesn't work and maybe this is the solution in some way.