Gabriel Mizrahi

and it was a very painful day and basically he called her parents and had the parents waiting outside and he broke up with her and then said now your parents are here and they're going to take you from now on and this person had to get into treatment and stuff she was so angry at him and was embarrassed and it was a whole thing but sometimes you just need somebody more appropriate to take care of somebody so they're not just alone and if you can't find that person

I don't think you would be doing anything wrong.

It's just a nice last thing to do to make sure she's not completely alone right now and maybe to take some of the weight off of yourself.

But honestly, just given the facts here and the order of protection, if you don't do that, I would not blame you.

And I don't think you'd be doing anything wrong.

Let's also remember that our friend here is a police officer, right?

Quite a good one from the sound of it.

We're hearing from a guy who has a very strong sense of responsibility.

Like I said, a real desire to protect people, to understand them.

And that includes caring for people psychologically.

But this is a very taxing job.

Right.

Being a cop takes a toll on you.

And he's been doing that job and then coming home and having to stabilize and shore up this very compromised partner and deal with her reality, which has its own logic and rules and difficult needs.

And then he has to run their entire life for them with zero help.

Man, this guy is like, how is he even still standing?

I don't understand.

extremely intense i think it's safe to say that he probably has some trauma himself from the situation so what you just said is really important jordan to give himself time to step into this new life without having to be on call for somebody else but more than that to really rack focus from a partner to himself i think he has to come first now he has some healing really and some work to do

Yeah, that's going to be a huge one.

Dear Jordan and Gabe, three months ago, I lost my job at a large retail company.