Gabriel Mizrahi

That is a really interesting analogy.

Well, that's kind of interesting, too.

She's asking, should I try again and do the test or should I not do the test?

But the real question to me is, is this guilt, is this regret fully warranted?

And what do they say about my true beliefs here and how those beliefs square with my stated beliefs?

That's a harder question to answer.

Like you said, we have our own beliefs, our own biases.

She has hers.

She's allowed to hold whatever values and positions she holds.

I don't think we're really interested in convincing her of our point of view exactly.

Nah, not especially.

Although I have some questions.

Other than, you know, making room for different perspectives and feelings at the same time.

I think the most important part of her letter is when she said that she wants a healthy child.

She wants a child who operates at the level that she and her husband do.

However you feel about special needs children, I think that's a fair thing to want.

Right.

This isn't entirely selfish children with special needs.

I mean, it depends clearly on the particular needs and the family you're born into and all of that, but they objectively have a harder go of it than typical kids.

So again,