Gabriel Mizrahi

Any smoke alarms you like?

I just I'm trying to figure this out.

The answer could be much simpler.

Yeah, I agree.

Does that cover it?

Have we done it?

This is intense.

Okay.

The problem is her capacity for this chaos is significantly higher than most people's and not entirely in a good way.

Or what actually constitutes a serious risk.

Those are exactly the right questions, Jordan.

And to those, I would add one fundamental one.

I guess it's another version of your first question, which is, what are you getting out of this situation?

Yeah.

By which I mean, in this dynamic you've created with your boyfriend, where he essentially melts down, lashes out, creates messes, drives people away, undermines himself at every turn, seemingly.

And then you generally clean up those messes,

Manage his moods, calm him down, know when to engage, when to retreat, patch things up.

In that dance you guys seem to do over and over again, what does that give you?

What feeling or what experience does that leave you with and why?

So when I ask you why, what I mean is...