Gabriel Mizrahi

Not once did she offer to pay for a ride, buy me a meal, or even get me a bottle of water. What the hell, man?

Not once did she offer to pay for a ride, buy me a meal, or even get me a bottle of water. What the hell, man?

Not once did she offer to pay for a ride, buy me a meal, or even get me a bottle of water. What the hell, man?

I would have happily spent money on a higher-end restaurant or activity with her, any experience we could have shared, but these expenses didn't sit right with me. She's incredibly detail-oriented at work, so it seems very unlike her to not realize the literal and figurative costs. Jordan, that makes me think that she didn't want to offer...

I would have happily spent money on a higher-end restaurant or activity with her, any experience we could have shared, but these expenses didn't sit right with me. She's incredibly detail-oriented at work, so it seems very unlike her to not realize the literal and figurative costs. Jordan, that makes me think that she didn't want to offer...

I would have happily spent money on a higher-end restaurant or activity with her, any experience we could have shared, but these expenses didn't sit right with me. She's incredibly detail-oriented at work, so it seems very unlike her to not realize the literal and figurative costs. Jordan, that makes me think that she didn't want to offer...

Because offering to help pay for the rides would mean acknowledging how bizarre this behavior was. Was she just embarrassed?

Because offering to help pay for the rides would mean acknowledging how bizarre this behavior was. Was she just embarrassed?

Because offering to help pay for the rides would mean acknowledging how bizarre this behavior was. Was she just embarrassed?

Yeah, it's just hard for me to imagine somebody being that oblivious. Same, yeah. While I did my best to be empathetic and forgiving of all this, her behavior really threw me. I felt like little more than a guest on her visit myself. And I actually felt a little used for my city's many restaurant menus. As strange as that might sound.

Yeah, it's just hard for me to imagine somebody being that oblivious. Same, yeah. While I did my best to be empathetic and forgiving of all this, her behavior really threw me. I felt like little more than a guest on her visit myself. And I actually felt a little used for my city's many restaurant menus. As strange as that might sound.

Yeah, it's just hard for me to imagine somebody being that oblivious. Same, yeah. While I did my best to be empathetic and forgiving of all this, her behavior really threw me. I felt like little more than a guest on her visit myself. And I actually felt a little used for my city's many restaurant menus. As strange as that might sound.

All of that said, I should mention as kindly as possible that my friend is quite overweight, far more than I was aware of and more than earlier in her marriage from the photos I've seen.

All of that said, I should mention as kindly as possible that my friend is quite overweight, far more than I was aware of and more than earlier in her marriage from the photos I've seen.

All of that said, I should mention as kindly as possible that my friend is quite overweight, far more than I was aware of and more than earlier in her marriage from the photos I've seen.

I didn't mention this until now because she completely ignores this fact herself. Her husband is thin and fit. I worry that her food obsession could be straining her marriage and almost certainly other relationships in her life. Yes. I care about my friend and she seemed totally oblivious to her food behaviors being very different.

I didn't mention this until now because she completely ignores this fact herself. Her husband is thin and fit. I worry that her food obsession could be straining her marriage and almost certainly other relationships in her life. Yes. I care about my friend and she seemed totally oblivious to her food behaviors being very different.

I didn't mention this until now because she completely ignores this fact herself. Her husband is thin and fit. I worry that her food obsession could be straining her marriage and almost certainly other relationships in her life. Yes. I care about my friend and she seemed totally oblivious to her food behaviors being very different.

but I've never been overweight and don't know what it does to a person mentally or physically. Should I suggest to my friend that she has a relationship with food that seems very unhealthy, is radically time-consuming, is impacting others, and is quite possibly fracturing her marriage? Should I approach the topic of her looking into these new weight loss medications out there?

but I've never been overweight and don't know what it does to a person mentally or physically. Should I suggest to my friend that she has a relationship with food that seems very unhealthy, is radically time-consuming, is impacting others, and is quite possibly fracturing her marriage? Should I approach the topic of her looking into these new weight loss medications out there?