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Gad Saad

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Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

So post

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

Postmodernism basically says up is down, left is right, men are women, freedom is slavery, war is peace.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

Everything is relativistic, and therefore we're not shackled by this thing called reality.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

So to then argue that, no, no, no, people are born with specific features

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

phenotypes they're called male and female and you can't alter that becomes very mean it becomes non-empathetic be kind so what happened in the university is we switched from an epistemology of truth to an epistemology of care which is one manifestation of suicidal empathy

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

It's both.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

But before I expand on what you just asked me, let me, just for the listeners and viewers, explain what is suicidal empathy.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

Empathy is a perfectly laudable virtue for human beings to exhibit, right?

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

We are a social species.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

So for you and I to have a meaningful conversation, I need to put myself in your mind and vice versa.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

That's called cognitive empathy or theory of mind.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

So the book is not an attack on empathy, period.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

It's an attack on dysregulated empathy

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

Aristotle explained to us several millennia ago that all good things in moderation, too little of something is not good, too much of something is not good.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

And that exact principle applies to empathy.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

If I have no empathy, I'm likely to be a psychopath.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

If I have hyperactive empathy that is invoked in the wrong situations toward the wrong targets, we end up with suicidal empathy.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

But to come back to your point, yes, the Pope behind the very high Vatican walls could pontificate about the love and brotherhood between Islam and Christianity as thousands of Christians are massacred in Nigeria.

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

So I can strongly

Morning Wire
When Being Kind Goes Too Far

stroke my beautiful, luxuriant hair while looking at myself in the mirror of moral preening because I don't bear any of the costs of appearing kind, tolerant, empathetic, and compassionate.