Garry Tan
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That sounds like a healthy relationship.
That could be your superpower.
I mean, my therapist is like, man, you need to integrate that kid and like hug him.
And then I'm afraid, well, if I do that, will I be able to still do what I do?
don't know yet i don't know what the answer is do you feel like he's in any way getting in your way now yeah all the time would you say there's a part of you that's self-destructive
Well, I stopped drinking, so that's good.
Funny enough, I do have a self-destructive streak that I am now very, very aware of.
But when I was younger, I was like, oh, no, I'm fine.
I have this like very extreme control thing.
It's either self-abandonment or it's domination, right?
And the integration thing right now is how do I –
My wife always says like, Gary, you're so extreme.