Gary Direnfeld

And I said, don't be bad-mouthing your partner to me.

You may want to get back together with that person.

And because you've put out all this negative information about them, you may be worried about looking like a horse's rear end if you do.

And that could influence...

a good decision to return, assuming it's a good decision.

So we always want to be circumspect.

We always want to be cautious about what we're going to speak publicly or post about others.

Listen, you're Jewish, I'm Jewish.

There's a concept called Lushen Hora.

I don't know it.

Are you serious?

Yeah, I'm a bad Jew.

Lush and Hora means to speak badly about another.

It's referring to gossip.

And we don't want to participate in spreading gossip or bad words about another.

And the reason is it can wind up being a reflection on ourselves.

Even if it's true, David, even if what you're saying is true, if you're out there trashing another, it can undermine people's trust in your confidentiality.

And will they share things with you if these are your boundaries?

So there are many ways that there can be an adverse consequence to posting adversely, negatively about someone that you're in a relationship with, someone that you know.

That's reasonable.