Gary Direnfeld

And you and I both know, sometimes there's a huge, a huge distance between expectation and

and reality.

And not to do Gary after dark here, but we're not even talking about the sex component.

You know, like what if you've got kids and you guys aren't really in a good place with your sex life and that's okay, maybe in the future it'll recover.

But it's this lens, this spotlight that you're supposed to have this like wonderful sexual interaction with your special someone.

It's more than a Hallmark moment, this one.

Hallmark after dark with Gary.

I just mean all the pressure, all the expectations, your friends bragging about how great a time and what special thing, their special someone planned for them.

And if your life doesn't fit these narratives, where are you left?

What's left with you?

What are you to do?

Yeah, well, first of all, I have to comment on Gary after dark.

Yeah, that's the sexy Gary Dierenfeld.

That's the sexy therapy Thursdays on a Wednesday.

Oh, David, sometimes.

I'll have to check in with my wife to figure out who is this Gary After Dark.

No, no, I just mean if we're going to talk about sex, it's a little racy, and so it's Gary After Dark.

But the truth is, yeah, sometimes there are also these expectations of the, not just sex the way sex has been through the rest of the year, but a very romanticized version of sex.

And again, you know, this expectation thing.

And if you're not in that relationship, there are those who may pine for it.