Gary Direnfeld
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where does that leave you?
And I want to talk about couples who are going through kind of a rough patch sexually.
Maybe they just had kids.
There are many reasons why, you know, there's an ebb and flow to sex, Gary, if you know what I'm saying.
So let me talk about sex for just a moment.
I'm going to start by saying sex is important.
Yes.
Okay.
Now, yeah, full stop.
Having said that,
People have different libidos.
What do I mean by libido?
Sex drives.
People have different sexual appetites.
People have different ways of expressing their sexuality and what gives them gratification.
So we have to understand that.
And sex...
is also a function of intimacy.
Now, look, if you're into watching porn, so be it.
There is sex just for sex's sake, just for the good feeling of a good orgasm.