Gary Direnfeld

So thank you for saying I was about to say it goes without saying, but it goes with saying perhaps my my first tip is it is powerful as the first as the second.

The second is if you're going through a patch where things aren't great and you're maybe not doing it very often or maybe the the interactions you've had are not as great as they used to be.

Maybe you just had kids.

Maybe you have a stressful time at work.

Just take the pressure off.

Don't go in expecting to have the best experience of your life when the last few experiences have just been so-so.

Yeah, manage expectations.

Be realistic.

The goal is just to have a little fun and just to have sex if you want.

And don't put that pressure that you need to have the best experience of the last year.

Take the pressure off.

Don't make the goal like people have to have the most pleasure they've had in the last year because it's Valentine's Day.

The goal is just to...

to mess around a bit and have fun.

That's it.

Take the pressure off is my second piece of advice.

Do you have a third?

No, I wish I did.

Do you have any advice?

Yes, of course.