Gary Direnfeld
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Scary after dark.
Give us the advice.
I'm a social worker.
I always have advice.
My third piece, and I'm good with your first two, by the way.
The third is discussion.
Just honest, transparent, authentic discussion with your partner.
Share where you are at.
If you are not in the mood, that hopefully is okay.
You know, dear partner, you know, I'm tired.
This hurts or that hurts.
I'm stressed about this.
My head is just not in that space.
I worry for our relationship.
Whatever it is, you can create hopefully more intimacy by being transparent.
People say that the most important sex organ is the brain.
And it's a good saying.
And the brain is accessed through our conversation.
And sometimes sex is impeded because of personal choices and preferences in the bedroom.
Some people are not comfortable with certain expectations.