Gary Direnfeld

You say, have whatever you want in the cupboard.

They drink your hundred dollar bottle of wine.

Are you right to send them a money request for it?

That up next.

Messy money matters.

That is what we're going to discuss.

Dilemmas where we weigh in on whether people are the a-holes.

Here with Dr. Eric Kam, an economics professor from Toronto Metropolitan University.

Eric, welcome to the show.

You were the first person who came to our mind.

Thank you so much, Eric.

Starting this interview with aggression is important.

Okay, let's get to our first dilemma.

I love this one because I can completely relate.

I usually don't read the whole dilemma, but I'm going to.

It's, am I the jerk for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while house-sitting?

Okay, this woman has her friend watch her place to cat-sit for the weekend.

She tells him he can help himself to whatever he wants in the kitchen.

But then she thinks, okay, that just means like snacks and stuff.

The dude helps himself to a $120 bottle of wine that the woman claims she had been saving.