Gary Vaynerchuk

Because I didn't even realize the dichotomy of that. I just thought I was being nice. I was like, look what I'm doing for Sally. Two more years of payroll when she sucks. Look what I'm doing for Ricky. This guy blows. He'll never be okay out there. There was probably a mix of little ego, like jump on my shoulders, I'll be Superman, which is why I'm using the kryptonite example.

Because I didn't even realize the dichotomy of that. I just thought I was being nice. I was like, look what I'm doing for Sally. Two more years of payroll when she sucks. Look what I'm doing for Ricky. This guy blows. He'll never be okay out there. There was probably a mix of little ego, like jump on my shoulders, I'll be Superman, which is why I'm using the kryptonite example.

But there was also, I thought it was being good. life's hard lessons, I had to wake up in my mid-40s and go, why is anyone that's ever worked for me not like me? Because, you know, you'd read a tweet and be like, Gary, and I'd be like, fuck, how's that possible? I was so nice to Johnny. I had to really do that work.

But there was also, I thought it was being good. life's hard lessons, I had to wake up in my mid-40s and go, why is anyone that's ever worked for me not like me? Because, you know, you'd read a tweet and be like, Gary, and I'd be like, fuck, how's that possible? I was so nice to Johnny. I had to really do that work.

Well, people in the outside world who don't know me don't like me. The reason they wouldn't like it is because either my communication style isn't their jam, which I understand. Like when you're aggressive and confident and competitive and Jersey and like my schtick.

Well, people in the outside world who don't know me don't like me. The reason they wouldn't like it is because either my communication style isn't their jam, which I understand. Like when you're aggressive and confident and competitive and Jersey and like my schtick.

in their mind like it doesn't work for now i understand that yeah some people more chill like you know like the reason people don't like i love to live in new york city some people come to get me the out of here on that right it's too much that i respect number two the people that know you or work for you or yeah let me finish this i think because i think this will help people because i what i'm really trying to do in this is not saying about me i'm hoping that people can start having a better relationship with people not liking them that don't know them that's good so number two it's it's their own

in their mind like it doesn't work for now i understand that yeah some people more chill like you know like the reason people don't like i love to live in new york city some people come to get me the out of here on that right it's too much that i respect number two the people that know you or work for you or yeah let me finish this i think because i think this will help people because i what i'm really trying to do in this is not saying about me i'm hoping that people can start having a better relationship with people not liking them that don't know them that's good so number two it's it's their own

they want to be a successful entrepreneur, and I'm triggering affirmation of they're not there yet, and they're like, you'll this guy, right? Three, they've overly put me on a pedestal, and then I do something that they don't agree with, and it them up, which is very flattering, but very understanding. but it's all wrapped up in who they are with themselves.

they want to be a successful entrepreneur, and I'm triggering affirmation of they're not there yet, and they're like, you'll this guy, right? Three, they've overly put me on a pedestal, and then I do something that they don't agree with, and it them up, which is very flattering, but very understanding. but it's all wrapped up in who they are with themselves.

On the version of people that do know me, the only thing, the black and white thing, was the inability, it's only the people closest that didn't get the candor that I actually ironically liked the most. Now what's been nice, you know what got me away with it for a long time? was people's own accountability.

On the version of people that do know me, the only thing, the black and white thing, was the inability, it's only the people closest that didn't get the candor that I actually ironically liked the most. Now what's been nice, you know what got me away with it for a long time? was people's own accountability.

Why I was getting away with it in my own mind to my own self was people would hit me up three, four years later with emails like, I'm sorry. Because they had gone through, look, if you're a C player, you're good with me. Because I think you need all kinds. It was D and F. And that was a subjective opinion, whether I'm right or wrong. But as you can imagine, it's not like I'm bad at it.

Why I was getting away with it in my own mind to my own self was people would hit me up three, four years later with emails like, I'm sorry. Because they had gone through, look, if you're a C player, you're good with me. Because I think you need all kinds. It was D and F. And that was a subjective opinion, whether I'm right or wrong. But as you can imagine, it's not like I'm bad at it.

I've been doing it my whole life. So a lot of those people really were D-ing and F-ing it. And they, through their own work on themselves, actually were able to go back and actually see a lot of the, they were able to see so many of the nice things I was doing even though I was sloppy on the candor and on the firing.

I've been doing it my whole life. So a lot of those people really were D-ing and F-ing it. And they, through their own work on themselves, actually were able to go back and actually see a lot of the, they were able to see so many of the nice things I was doing even though I was sloppy on the candor and on the firing.

I'll tell them in V friends form. So for people that don't know, there's 250 plus, I think it's 283 V friends, and they're named as alliterations of things I believe in. So this book is Patient Pig and Eager Eagle. So you can imagine how they can meet in the middle, right? To answer your question directly, I will start first with self-aware hair. Self-awareness.

I'll tell them in V friends form. So for people that don't know, there's 250 plus, I think it's 283 V friends, and they're named as alliterations of things I believe in. So this book is Patient Pig and Eager Eagle. So you can imagine how they can meet in the middle, right? To answer your question directly, I will start first with self-aware hair. Self-awareness.

And self-awareness becomes the gateway drug to self-love. Once you can see it in yourself, like I didn't see the lack of candor. And my superpower is self-awareness. This is why I was so good. I was like, I'm this, but I'm not this. And I'm this and I'm not this. And I didn't envy or have jealousy towards that I wasn't 6'3". I wish I was.

And self-awareness becomes the gateway drug to self-love. Once you can see it in yourself, like I didn't see the lack of candor. And my superpower is self-awareness. This is why I was so good. I was like, I'm this, but I'm not this. And I'm this and I'm not this. And I didn't envy or have jealousy towards that I wasn't 6'3". I wish I was.