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Gary Vee

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

We have a whole generation of parents shitting on millennials, but they're the ones who raised that entitlement. I think of it as enormous self-esteem building in parallel with radical candor and lack of entitlement. And that's what I think my mom did. She told me I was the best, but when I went 0 for 4 in a little league game, she didn't blame the umpire or my coach.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

We have a whole generation of parents shitting on millennials, but they're the ones who raised that entitlement. I think of it as enormous self-esteem building in parallel with radical candor and lack of entitlement. And that's what I think my mom did. She told me I was the best, but when I went 0 for 4 in a little league game, she didn't blame the umpire or my coach.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

She said, you weren't good enough.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

She said, you weren't good enough.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

She said, you weren't good enough.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But it's very rare in our society today because parents want to build self-esteem, but what they actually did was build entitlement. And kids got soft. And we're collectively soft because we didn't pay the piper and have a recession in 2009. Everything is materialistic. We all care to keep up with the Joneses. Everybody's valuing everybody's opinions.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But it's very rare in our society today because parents want to build self-esteem, but what they actually did was build entitlement. And kids got soft. And we're collectively soft because we didn't pay the piper and have a recession in 2009. Everything is materialistic. We all care to keep up with the Joneses. Everybody's valuing everybody's opinions.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But it's very rare in our society today because parents want to build self-esteem, but what they actually did was build entitlement. And kids got soft. And we're collectively soft because we didn't pay the piper and have a recession in 2009. Everything is materialistic. We all care to keep up with the Joneses. Everybody's valuing everybody's opinions.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Opinions are flying heavier and more black and white than ever because of social media. And we've gotten into this massive cocoon of everybody's listening to every voice but their own. And then when some people tell me, well, Gary, my voice says I suck. I'm like, that's not your voice. You've taken on the voice of someone else. Sure.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Opinions are flying heavier and more black and white than ever because of social media. And we've gotten into this massive cocoon of everybody's listening to every voice but their own. And then when some people tell me, well, Gary, my voice says I suck. I'm like, that's not your voice. You've taken on the voice of someone else. Sure.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Opinions are flying heavier and more black and white than ever because of social media. And we've gotten into this massive cocoon of everybody's listening to every voice but their own. And then when some people tell me, well, Gary, my voice says I suck. I'm like, that's not your voice. You've taken on the voice of someone else. Sure.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Lady Gaga said something yesterday on social, because she crushed the Met Gala, and she said something like, I once had a boyfriend who told me I would never be famous, that I would never win a Grammy, did you see this? And she said, and I replied to him by saying, one day after we're broken up, You're not gonna be able to go to the deli without hearing my name or seeing my face.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Lady Gaga said something yesterday on social, because she crushed the Met Gala, and she said something like, I once had a boyfriend who told me I would never be famous, that I would never win a Grammy, did you see this? And she said, and I replied to him by saying, one day after we're broken up, You're not gonna be able to go to the deli without hearing my name or seeing my face.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Lady Gaga said something yesterday on social, because she crushed the Met Gala, and she said something like, I once had a boyfriend who told me I would never be famous, that I would never win a Grammy, did you see this? And she said, and I replied to him by saying, one day after we're broken up, You're not gonna be able to go to the deli without hearing my name or seeing my face.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

And I just so understand that. I was told by the system, by my report card, by the friends, parents, by my teachers, by everybody that I would be a failure. D's and F's. You're gonna be a failure in life. The only voice I listened to was my own. Instilled by your mom. Correct. Through self-esteem. I'll never forget it. Opening a door for an elderly woman when I was eight years old at a McDonald's.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

And I just so understand that. I was told by the system, by my report card, by the friends, parents, by my teachers, by everybody that I would be a failure. D's and F's. You're gonna be a failure in life. The only voice I listened to was my own. Instilled by your mom. Correct. Through self-esteem. I'll never forget it. Opening a door for an elderly woman when I was eight years old at a McDonald's.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

And I just so understand that. I was told by the system, by my report card, by the friends, parents, by my teachers, by everybody that I would be a failure. D's and F's. You're gonna be a failure in life. The only voice I listened to was my own. Instilled by your mom. Correct. Through self-esteem. I'll never forget it. Opening a door for an elderly woman when I was eight years old at a McDonald's.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

I can see it now. Oak Tree Road, Bradley's, Edison, New Jersey, 1983. maybe 84, before November, opening a door for a woman, sunny day, and my mom went off as if I won a Nobel Peace Prize. She instilled positive reinforcement around a very good behavior. My mom also punished me on every report card. She punished me consistently through high school.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

I can see it now. Oak Tree Road, Bradley's, Edison, New Jersey, 1983. maybe 84, before November, opening a door for a woman, sunny day, and my mom went off as if I won a Nobel Peace Prize. She instilled positive reinforcement around a very good behavior. My mom also punished me on every report card. She punished me consistently through high school.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

I can see it now. Oak Tree Road, Bradley's, Edison, New Jersey, 1983. maybe 84, before November, opening a door for a woman, sunny day, and my mom went off as if I won a Nobel Peace Prize. She instilled positive reinforcement around a very good behavior. My mom also punished me on every report card. She punished me consistently through high school.