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Gary Vee

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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787 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

No Nintendo, no TV, no phone, no friends, no going out, all the way through my senior year of high school. Even though I was proving to her that I was capable, sports cards, helping my dad's business, she held me accountable. I was still a student, and I was failing at school, and thus you should pay the price. That accountability mattered. A lot of moms and dads are overacting the other way.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

No Nintendo, no TV, no phone, no friends, no going out, all the way through my senior year of high school. Even though I was proving to her that I was capable, sports cards, helping my dad's business, she held me accountable. I was still a student, and I was failing at school, and thus you should pay the price. That accountability mattered. A lot of moms and dads are overacting the other way.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

No Nintendo, no TV, no phone, no friends, no going out, all the way through my senior year of high school. Even though I was proving to her that I was capable, sports cards, helping my dad's business, she held me accountable. I was still a student, and I was failing at school, and thus you should pay the price. That accountability mattered. A lot of moms and dads are overacting the other way.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

They've decided entrepreneurship is cool, their kid's getting Fs, and they're like, hey, you're gonna be an entrepreneur, but what I'm worried about is they're creating entitlement. And so this tightrope of self-esteem building while being accountable is remarkably difficult. And then...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

They've decided entrepreneurship is cool, their kid's getting Fs, and they're like, hey, you're gonna be an entrepreneur, but what I'm worried about is they're creating entitlement. And so this tightrope of self-esteem building while being accountable is remarkably difficult. And then...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

They've decided entrepreneurship is cool, their kid's getting Fs, and they're like, hey, you're gonna be an entrepreneur, but what I'm worried about is they're creating entitlement. And so this tightrope of self-esteem building while being accountable is remarkably difficult. And then...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Back to like the 6th to 10th grade of like I like girls but I'm scared to ask them out because I don't want rejection. I also didn't conform to peer pressure ever. And that was because I just couldn't hear anybody else's voice. I couldn't hear anybody else's voice but my own.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Back to like the 6th to 10th grade of like I like girls but I'm scared to ask them out because I don't want rejection. I also didn't conform to peer pressure ever. And that was because I just couldn't hear anybody else's voice. I couldn't hear anybody else's voice but my own.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Back to like the 6th to 10th grade of like I like girls but I'm scared to ask them out because I don't want rejection. I also didn't conform to peer pressure ever. And that was because I just couldn't hear anybody else's voice. I couldn't hear anybody else's voice but my own.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know where it comes from? Also balancing it with empathy. Let me give you my perspective on when I read something that says, well, you're a crackhead, Gary. Or you're a charlatan. Or you're lucky. Or your daddy gave it to you. When they don't know the story of what I actually did at Wine Library. All those things penetrate first level hurt. You know, nobody wants to hear it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know where it comes from? Also balancing it with empathy. Let me give you my perspective on when I read something that says, well, you're a crackhead, Gary. Or you're a charlatan. Or you're lucky. Or your daddy gave it to you. When they don't know the story of what I actually did at Wine Library. All those things penetrate first level hurt. You know, nobody wants to hear it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know where it comes from? Also balancing it with empathy. Let me give you my perspective on when I read something that says, well, you're a crackhead, Gary. Or you're a charlatan. Or you're lucky. Or your daddy gave it to you. When they don't know the story of what I actually did at Wine Library. All those things penetrate first level hurt. You know, nobody wants to hear it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But immediately my place doesn't go into I'm confident, fuck you. My place goes to, man. God, thank you God for not letting me live a life where I would actually take the time to spend and consume somebody's content. I don't even consume anybody's content to begin with, let alone consume with the interest to tear that person down.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But immediately my place doesn't go into I'm confident, fuck you. My place goes to, man. God, thank you God for not letting me live a life where I would actually take the time to spend and consume somebody's content. I don't even consume anybody's content to begin with, let alone consume with the interest to tear that person down.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But immediately my place doesn't go into I'm confident, fuck you. My place goes to, man. God, thank you God for not letting me live a life where I would actually take the time to spend and consume somebody's content. I don't even consume anybody's content to begin with, let alone consume with the interest to tear that person down.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You have to be so unhappy inside to wanna manifest tearing somebody else down. And I, listen, I don't like talking about this, but this is your first episode and I want to give you something. Thank you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You have to be so unhappy inside to wanna manifest tearing somebody else down. And I, listen, I don't like talking about this, but this is your first episode and I want to give you something. Thank you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You have to be so unhappy inside to wanna manifest tearing somebody else down. And I, listen, I don't like talking about this, but this is your first episode and I want to give you something. Thank you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know, she has dementia now, she's been in essence gone for five to seven years, but she's been gone to me for 25 years because she was the singular most negative person I'd ever come across in my life. And the reason I checked out from her at 16, 17, 18, whenever I did, was because she spent 100% of her time tearing down other people. My father, My mother. It's your father's mother. Yes.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know, she has dementia now, she's been in essence gone for five to seven years, but she's been gone to me for 25 years because she was the singular most negative person I'd ever come across in my life. And the reason I checked out from her at 16, 17, 18, whenever I did, was because she spent 100% of her time tearing down other people. My father, My mother. It's your father's mother. Yes.