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Gary Vee

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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787 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You're a DNF student going into ninth grade and now we're going to high school? We've had a very adult conversation that you're not gonna maybe go to college or you're not a great student?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You're a DNF student going into ninth grade and now we're going to high school? We've had a very adult conversation that you're not gonna maybe go to college or you're not a great student?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You're a DNF student going into ninth grade and now we're going to high school? We've had a very adult conversation that you're not gonna maybe go to college or you're not a great student?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Okay, in between your summer from eighth to ninth grade, instead of slacking off and getting ready for high school, you either A, go work at Walmart so you can get dirt under your nails because that's the future of your life. No kid wants to do that. Or you better start flipping on eBay or StockX or show me that your Instagram account around Magic the Gathering or around fashion makes money.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Okay, in between your summer from eighth to ninth grade, instead of slacking off and getting ready for high school, you either A, go work at Walmart so you can get dirt under your nails because that's the future of your life. No kid wants to do that. Or you better start flipping on eBay or StockX or show me that your Instagram account around Magic the Gathering or around fashion makes money.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Okay, in between your summer from eighth to ninth grade, instead of slacking off and getting ready for high school, you either A, go work at Walmart so you can get dirt under your nails because that's the future of your life. No kid wants to do that. Or you better start flipping on eBay or StockX or show me that your Instagram account around Magic the Gathering or around fashion makes money.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

So I'll give you June but if on 4th of July you can't show me a bank account that has $2,000 in it because you sold ads on your Instagram now you're going to Walmart. Suffocating that is the key to practical parenting instead of ideological parenting. And that is the framework of my optimism. And confidence. And confidence. Because what happens is that kid gets real life.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

So I'll give you June but if on 4th of July you can't show me a bank account that has $2,000 in it because you sold ads on your Instagram now you're going to Walmart. Suffocating that is the key to practical parenting instead of ideological parenting. And that is the framework of my optimism. And confidence. And confidence. Because what happens is that kid gets real life.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

So I'll give you June but if on 4th of July you can't show me a bank account that has $2,000 in it because you sold ads on your Instagram now you're going to Walmart. Suffocating that is the key to practical parenting instead of ideological parenting. And that is the framework of my optimism. And confidence. And confidence. Because what happens is that kid gets real life.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

And so what's gonna happen is Sarah is either gonna sell $480 worth of slime, which the market is gonna give her positive reinforcement. Not her friends saying that she looks pretty. The market buying $480, that becomes, that's what was my positive reinforcement. I didn't need my teachers or my friends or the system.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

And so what's gonna happen is Sarah is either gonna sell $480 worth of slime, which the market is gonna give her positive reinforcement. Not her friends saying that she looks pretty. The market buying $480, that becomes, that's what was my positive reinforcement. I didn't need my teachers or my friends or the system.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

And so what's gonna happen is Sarah is either gonna sell $480 worth of slime, which the market is gonna give her positive reinforcement. Not her friends saying that she looks pretty. The market buying $480, that becomes, that's what was my positive reinforcement. I didn't need my teachers or my friends or the system.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

When I did a baseball card show and I sold $2,000 worth of cards, the market was telling me I was good. Validating you. Validation. Yes. The market. No individual human. You didn't need anyone to do it. The market. Look, I'm literally getting, look at these goosebumps. It's a really interesting insight. That is really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

When I did a baseball card show and I sold $2,000 worth of cards, the market was telling me I was good. Validating you. Validation. Yes. The market. No individual human. You didn't need anyone to do it. The market. Look, I'm literally getting, look at these goosebumps. It's a really interesting insight. That is really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

When I did a baseball card show and I sold $2,000 worth of cards, the market was telling me I was good. Validating you. Validation. Yes. The market. No individual human. You didn't need anyone to do it. The market. Look, I'm literally getting, look at these goosebumps. It's a really interesting insight. That is really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

It's why nobody's opinion ever mattered to me, but everybody's collective opinion matters to me. My reputation matters to me, just not Dustin's singular point of view. And Dustin's matters to me because he knows me better than you do. And now you matter more to me than you did 30 minutes ago. But RickyPants49, who leaves a comment on Insta, he just knows what he sees on Insta. He doesn't know me.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

It's why nobody's opinion ever mattered to me, but everybody's collective opinion matters to me. My reputation matters to me, just not Dustin's singular point of view. And Dustin's matters to me because he knows me better than you do. And now you matter more to me than you did 30 minutes ago. But RickyPants49, who leaves a comment on Insta, he just knows what he sees on Insta. He doesn't know me.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

It's why nobody's opinion ever mattered to me, but everybody's collective opinion matters to me. My reputation matters to me, just not Dustin's singular point of view. And Dustin's matters to me because he knows me better than you do. And now you matter more to me than you did 30 minutes ago. But RickyPants49, who leaves a comment on Insta, he just knows what he sees on Insta. He doesn't know me.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Your closest friends and relatives don't know you. Nobody actually ever fully knows you. So why are you letting somebody's anonymous comments dictate how you feel about yourself?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Your closest friends and relatives don't know you. Nobody actually ever fully knows you. So why are you letting somebody's anonymous comments dictate how you feel about yourself?