Gary Vee

Your closest friends and relatives don't know you. Nobody actually ever fully knows you. So why are you letting somebody's anonymous comments dictate how you feel about yourself?

They value other people's opinions. You know what else it does? People are like, Gary, you're so humble. I don't value other people's opinions. So when people come in and say, you walk on water, I'm like, cool. No, really, it goes both ways, right? A lot of people talk about the trolls or the haters. You know, when you kind of cross the chasm and now you're getting macro ridiculous.

They value other people's opinions. You know what else it does? People are like, Gary, you're so humble. I don't value other people's opinions. So when people come in and say, you walk on water, I'm like, cool. No, really, it goes both ways, right? A lot of people talk about the trolls or the haters. You know, when you kind of cross the chasm and now you're getting macro ridiculous.

They value other people's opinions. You know what else it does? People are like, Gary, you're so humble. I don't value other people's opinions. So when people come in and say, you walk on water, I'm like, cool. No, really, it goes both ways, right? A lot of people talk about the trolls or the haters. You know, when you kind of cross the chasm and now you're getting macro ridiculous.

And I think that's where people's vulnerabilities are. They love the praise, so now they're validating other people's singular opinion. But then, whoops, what just happened? You know, pretty goes to ugly really fast. And now you're caught because you loved him when he was pretty. But now somebody said ugly.

And I think that's where people's vulnerabilities are. They love the praise, so now they're validating other people's singular opinion. But then, whoops, what just happened? You know, pretty goes to ugly really fast. And now you're caught because you loved him when he was pretty. But now somebody said ugly.

And I think that's where people's vulnerabilities are. They love the praise, so now they're validating other people's singular opinion. But then, whoops, what just happened? You know, pretty goes to ugly really fast. And now you're caught because you loved him when he was pretty. But now somebody said ugly.

And I would tell you if you said push comes to shove, Gary, which one do you hear more? I have empathy for the negative feedback because I want to continue to evolve and I don't want to just say it's a hater. You know how many people say somebody's a hater or a troll but that person's actually right?

And I would tell you if you said push comes to shove, Gary, which one do you hear more? I have empathy for the negative feedback because I want to continue to evolve and I don't want to just say it's a hater. You know how many people say somebody's a hater or a troll but that person's actually right?

And I would tell you if you said push comes to shove, Gary, which one do you hear more? I have empathy for the negative feedback because I want to continue to evolve and I don't want to just say it's a hater. You know how many people say somebody's a hater or a troll but that person's actually right?

You're saying that these goji berries cure cancer because you have an MLM and you're trying to sell people into it. They're right. You're wrong. So I never want to become that person caricature of myself, I never want to be resistant to feedback, so even though I don't value the opinion, I listen.

You're saying that these goji berries cure cancer because you have an MLM and you're trying to sell people into it. They're right. You're wrong. So I never want to become that person caricature of myself, I never want to be resistant to feedback, so even though I don't value the opinion, I listen.

You're saying that these goji berries cure cancer because you have an MLM and you're trying to sell people into it. They're right. You're wrong. So I never want to become that person caricature of myself, I never want to be resistant to feedback, so even though I don't value the opinion, I listen.

It may not penetrate my soul or my behavior, but I listen and I always try to calibrate it against of like, do not become delusional, do not become a caricature of yourself. Got it? It's very easy to get caught up when you have as much positive reinforcement as I have, but I try to keep myself very much in the zone.

It may not penetrate my soul or my behavior, but I listen and I always try to calibrate it against of like, do not become delusional, do not become a caricature of yourself. Got it? It's very easy to get caught up when you have as much positive reinforcement as I have, but I try to keep myself very much in the zone.

It may not penetrate my soul or my behavior, but I listen and I always try to calibrate it against of like, do not become delusional, do not become a caricature of yourself. Got it? It's very easy to get caught up when you have as much positive reinforcement as I have, but I try to keep myself very much in the zone.

Listen, I'm more likely to really be thoughtful about a troll comment than smell the roses. I really am. And I think that level of, if you're gonna have confidence, you need to balance it with humility. That's where it gets really going. And then you sprinkle a little empathy

Listen, I'm more likely to really be thoughtful about a troll comment than smell the roses. I really am. And I think that level of, if you're gonna have confidence, you need to balance it with humility. That's where it gets really going. And then you sprinkle a little empathy

Listen, I'm more likely to really be thoughtful about a troll comment than smell the roses. I really am. And I think that level of, if you're gonna have confidence, you need to balance it with humility. That's where it gets really going. And then you sprinkle a little empathy

for the other person, again, everybody who's listening, if you've literally stopped posting because somebody said you're ugly or stupid, you have to understand that that person's in a bad place. We have to start talking about that. It takes energy to muster up watching something and then leaving a bad comment. Could you imagine if that was your life? No, it's very sad.