Gemma Mitchell

And that happens in all relationships.

If you, if it's you and a financial advisor, you and accountant, you and your partner.

So like if you're in a partnership, a lot of the time the finances fall on one person from a day to day thing, you know, paying the bills, putting money here and there.

That's okay.

As long as both understand what we do, why we do this, where our bank accounts are, why we invest the way that we do.

So you're able to outsource stuff, but not the understanding.

The doing, not the understanding.

And it might not be that his needs to change.

The way that he's managing it, what we're trying to work on with him is getting it down to a set amount of time a week, like a bit of a quick routine on how he does that without it derailing his whole week and him constantly thinking about just some systems that support it.

I think people focus on the numbers and it's usually behavioral, but you've got to understand both.

There's an element of it.

And I find that people, they think finance is all about money and numbers and math.

And it's absolutely not.

It's

So like money is our sense of security.

It's our safety.

It can't buy happiness, but it can buy the things that keep us safe, secure.

And that gives a lot of happiness and takes a lot of stress off our shoulders, which in turn is going to make us happier.

So yes, it doesn't directly buy us happiness, but it can cause a lot of stress if we don't have it working well and have our basic needs met.

Yeah.