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Gemma Speck

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
618 total appearances

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The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Actually, you know, looking back culturally, if you lost out on work, if you chose not to work, like you were generally viewed pretty harshly.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You were stigmatized for not doing so and you would suffer like your family wouldn't eat.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

There wasn't as much social security.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

So on a huge scale, and I know this is a psychology podcast, but to get historical, like this, our entire structure towards work and productivity and perceived responsibility is

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

shifted.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

It shifted from doing what was needed to doing everything in excess and what was required from you.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And suddenly it's also the individual's problem if work is not being done and money is not being made.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

That's a stressful burden.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

If we move forward to modern day, you know, we now have unions, we have more adequate workers' rights in a lot of countries.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You know, a lot of places have weekends off.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Holiday pay is another example.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

But what we now have that wasn't around back then that is still contributing to this is online platforms like LinkedIn and social media.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And they are a huge contributor to why you feel bad about resting.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

What do we do when we have five minutes in between meetings, five minutes in between appointments, five minutes whilst our pasta boils?

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

We pick up our phones and we scroll.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And in that moment, we can potentially see dozens of other people doing more than us.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And this creates competition with how we use our time.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And where there is competition, you know, there are winners and there are losers.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

There are people with greater status and people with lower status.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

I'm going to explain this a little bit better.