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Gemma Speck

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
618 total appearances

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The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Rest is as important as the seasons are to earth and you're part of earth and feeling that it's really sinking into how natural it is to honor that

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

and to honor the system and to not disturb the system by honoring the seasons of life has really helped me, I think, in such an important way.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Basically, how I've started to think of it is that some parts of life, like I said, are summer.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

There are going to be natural seasons where I grow, I expand, I am full of light and energy, I am up all the time.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

There's autumn, that's like the shedding.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

There's spring, that's the work.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And you have to have the winters.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You have to have periods of hibernation and rest and just preparing for the next season.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Every single cycle in your life requires a winter.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You require consolidation.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You require rest to be able to keep going.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

The problem is, is that we often demand summer output.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

across all seasons, especially in our winter seasons.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And I'm not actually talking about seasons here.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

I'm talking metaphorically.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

But, you know, we treat ourselves like a machine where the setting is going to stay the same the whole year round.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Humans simply do not work like that.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Like the cycles that the Earth operates on and that you operate on are incredibly important and designed to

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

make you the best version of yourself and designed to be the system that you work on.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Just because you have stuff to do doesn't mean you can override nature.