Gemma Speck
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6,373 appearances
17 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2026
last heard 13 Jun
Gemma Speck’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And so sometimes our obsession with somebody is rather grounding.
It's purpose giving.
It's motivating, especially when you are a little bit lonely.
You're struggling with work.
You don't really have a purpose.
It's like, well, why does that matter if I have this?
If I can win this person over, it's all going to be okay.
Love is like the best thing out there.
If I find love, all of this other stuff is going to take care of itself.
So that's the explanation for why you find yourself in this state of limerence and obsession with an unrequited figure, why somebody not liking you back is so deeply powerful for our brain.
Let's continue this conversation and talk about what to do about it, including some more controversial advice I have for you.
Stay with us.
Your mom, book talk, the entire internet.
I'm Sanjana Bhaskar.
I'm Tyler McCall.
And what all of it says about how we actually love, yearn, and obsess.
We're going to Wuthering Heights.
Which, for the record, is not a romance novel.
And yet it has haunted the romance genre for 200 years.
We're getting into dark romance, Age Gaps.
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