George Janko

So is it a yes or no?

Can I go first?

I think me and you have the same idea.

I don't think we're going to argue with it.

I think there's a level to it.

Yeah.

If you would do it in the same respect as if the person was in the room.

If you're talking about them to like, not in a bad way, you're not like venting in a gross way, but you're like, I'm talking to my, I'd be like, hey,

You know, I think this, she thinks this.

Am I being out of hand with this?

I think that's healthy.

I think it's healthy to get counseling.

I think it's unhealthy when you support more on your counsel than your own partner.

I think that's when you get, like, I don't, my friends don't have a higher opinion than my wife, but I will go to them in a way where I'm like, hey, we got into it over this.

Am I seeing this like in a bad way or a good way?

Like, how do you feel about this?

Like getting questions and asking other people around you, I don't think it's a bad thing.

Yeah.

I feel like that's the that's the reflection of the heart, right?

Like I know when you go to your friends, you're not tearing me down.