George Janko

You wouldn't want to tear me down because you don't feel like you have the need to tear me down.

Some people tear down their partner because it's like an ego thing.

It's kind of like.

No, no, I'm right.

These people are wrong.

And when you separate yourself from your partner in that type of way, you're not one.

So I agree with that.

I also think it's really unhealthy to bring all of your issues to your friends.

I think people get out of hand with that.

I think once in a while it's good to see counseling, but I don't think it's healthy to continuously...

go to your friends about things that should be personal between two couples.

Yeah.

I also, me and you don't do that.

I mean, I don't, I don't, I don't think we behave that way.

I think we've always kind of like kept it here.

Okay.

You just nailed it on the head.

There's a difference of seeking counsel versus tearing your partner down.

If you're truly trying to seek counsel, it's fine.

But if you're just trying to like vent and feel validated for your opinion, that's wrong.