George Kamel

What's in your retirement?

Okay.

Or if the if the renters don't want to live there anymore.

She blows through that money.

Or if she wanted to downsize and sell this home and buy a smaller apartment.

There's options here that I think she has that she may not want to do, nor really need to do at this point.

But I...

I have a feeling that you stepping in and trying to do this is just going to lead to more problems down the line.

And for that reason, I agree with George.

I'd rather spot her some cash as a gift, maybe here or there for a trip if you want to do that.

But she's got options here.

She's sitting on a nice piece of property that she's paid for over the course of years.

So unless somebody did that for her, that lets me know she's got some wherewithal on being able to handle her money.

And the truth is, I mean, the hard part with this is we all have a picture of what we want for our loved ones.

All of us do.

And sometimes that's just not the reality.

And there may be I mean, this sounds harsh, but it's just it's just I'm just being a realist right here.

She may not get to travel as much as she wants to.

Her life and her lifestyle does not afford that to her.

And all of us face that every single day.