George Kamel

There's things I would love to do right now, but I can't afford to do it.

So I will either have to change something about my financial situation.

I'll either have to wait.

I'll either have to save up.

I'll either have to, right?

And so there's part of that, that rather than make something very messy because we want to have a picture so badly, there's part of it of just saying, well, this is the reality of life for everyone to some extent.

And it's maybe not here for me to try to clean up and make perfect.

I agree with that.

As long as you put really strong and clear boundaries and very clear expectations, if you do decide to do these trips, got to be so clear with that.

Otherwise, next thing you know, it's like, but I want to go to the Bahamas.

I wasn't part of the deal, mom.

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Yeah, I mean, those little matchbox cars, you know, or even the ones from the movie cars, but those are like $2, like they're not $6, like they're not expensive.

I would, if you're in debt, if you're in baby step two, I would for sure cap the amount of birthday parties that we're going to.

And I would cap the amount that we're spending.