George Kamel

Here's where the confusion is.

Here's where the confusion is.

There's a lot of confusion in this.

And I hear what you're saying.

And it now is crystal clear to me.

So there's there's two or three issues here.

Number one, like what we already said, the money is siloed.

So because of that, there is just going to be a level of secrecy.

So that's thing one, and you both have created that environment.

Thing two is there isn't a clear stance on debt in your relationship.

It sounds like if it's this kind of debt, it's okay.

Uh-huh.

And so I think that's created.

That's the second problem is there's just not a clear stance on what does that mean?

And then the third thing is, yeah, there is a lack of communication.

There is something there that she didn't feel like she could tell you.

Even something like braces.

Hey, I have to use this money for our children's braces.

So there's a communication there or some sort of like lack of trust that.

I don't feel like I can come to you with this, or I don't feel like I can share this.