Glennon Doyle

Yeah. So the moment is you're so paranoid. That's right. It's the moment where the thing jumps from the issue straight to the other person's character.

Yeah. So the moment is you're so paranoid. That's right. It's the moment where the thing jumps from the issue straight to the other person's character.

Yeah. So the moment is you're so paranoid. That's right. It's the moment where the thing jumps from the issue straight to the other person's character.

And the whole purpose for the gaslighter is to... Retain power and control.

And the whole purpose for the gaslighter is to... Retain power and control.

And the whole purpose for the gaslighter is to... Retain power and control.

By destabilizing the gaslightee.

By destabilizing the gaslightee.

By destabilizing the gaslightee.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

And are we more susceptible to gaslighting within romantic relationships because we're so isolated in them? Like I- with friendships, we don't feel a disloyalty by going outside of the friendship and saying, hold on, can I run this by you? Because she just did this and I feel like weird about this. But in our marriages, we've created this culture where we feel disloyal discussing.

And are we more susceptible to gaslighting within romantic relationships because we're so isolated in them? Like I- with friendships, we don't feel a disloyalty by going outside of the friendship and saying, hold on, can I run this by you? Because she just did this and I feel like weird about this. But in our marriages, we've created this culture where we feel disloyal discussing.

And are we more susceptible to gaslighting within romantic relationships because we're so isolated in them? Like I- with friendships, we don't feel a disloyalty by going outside of the friendship and saying, hold on, can I run this by you? Because she just did this and I feel like weird about this. But in our marriages, we've created this culture where we feel disloyal discussing.

When you feel disloyal discussing anything, you are susceptible to being in this weird little cult.

When you feel disloyal discussing anything, you are susceptible to being in this weird little cult.

When you feel disloyal discussing anything, you are susceptible to being in this weird little cult.

Do you think it's like impossible in relationships to not have moments of being gaslighted or being the gaslighter? Because it feels like when I was reading your book, I just kept thinking, oh, my gosh, how many times I was gaslighted or also, which is more scary for me to think about, is how many times I've been the gaslighter. And I haven't I didn't know I was doing it.

Do you think it's like impossible in relationships to not have moments of being gaslighted or being the gaslighter? Because it feels like when I was reading your book, I just kept thinking, oh, my gosh, how many times I was gaslighted or also, which is more scary for me to think about, is how many times I've been the gaslighter. And I haven't I didn't know I was doing it.