Glennon Doyle

Do you think it's like impossible in relationships to not have moments of being gaslighted or being the gaslighter? Because it feels like when I was reading your book, I just kept thinking, oh, my gosh, how many times I was gaslighted or also, which is more scary for me to think about, is how many times I've been the gaslighter. And I haven't I didn't know I was doing it.

I felt that when I was reading, I was like, oh, I've done this. I've done this with Abby even, where she's come to me with a fear about our relationship that has cut so deep for me and made me so scared about who I was that I have then created a case for why that's not the case. And then she will say, I can't win this. I'm just, I'm hurt.

I felt that when I was reading, I was like, oh, I've done this. I've done this with Abby even, where she's come to me with a fear about our relationship that has cut so deep for me and made me so scared about who I was that I have then created a case for why that's not the case. And then she will say, I can't win this. I'm just, I'm hurt.

I felt that when I was reading, I was like, oh, I've done this. I've done this with Abby even, where she's come to me with a fear about our relationship that has cut so deep for me and made me so scared about who I was that I have then created a case for why that's not the case. And then she will say, I can't win this. I'm just, I'm hurt.

Mm-hmm. One of the things that I took so much that hit me in the heart was when you talk about how in a gaslighting relationship, whether it's with a romantic partner or your mother, what happens is you become obsessed with the argument about this relationship is whether I am bad with money or good with money. My point here is, am I bad or good with money? Am I bad or good? Am I bad or good?

Mm-hmm. One of the things that I took so much that hit me in the heart was when you talk about how in a gaslighting relationship, whether it's with a romantic partner or your mother, what happens is you become obsessed with the argument about this relationship is whether I am bad with money or good with money. My point here is, am I bad or good with money? Am I bad or good? Am I bad or good?

Mm-hmm. One of the things that I took so much that hit me in the heart was when you talk about how in a gaslighting relationship, whether it's with a romantic partner or your mother, what happens is you become obsessed with the argument about this relationship is whether I am bad with money or good with money. My point here is, am I bad or good with money? Am I bad or good? Am I bad or good?

Instead of saying, do I feel bad or good in this? do I feel bad? I don't like this regardless of whether I'm right or wrong. I don't like how this feels. So I'm out.

Instead of saying, do I feel bad or good in this? do I feel bad? I don't like this regardless of whether I'm right or wrong. I don't like how this feels. So I'm out.

Instead of saying, do I feel bad or good in this? do I feel bad? I don't like this regardless of whether I'm right or wrong. I don't like how this feels. So I'm out.

I do wonder if I were not in a gaslighting tango with the world. Would my thesis statement of untamed have been, I'm not crazy, I'm a goddamn cheetah. That's what it was. Or would the next phase be, okay, if you think I'm crazy- Regardless of whether what you think, I'm a goddamn cheetah.

I do wonder if I were not in a gaslighting tango with the world. Would my thesis statement of untamed have been, I'm not crazy, I'm a goddamn cheetah. That's what it was. Or would the next phase be, okay, if you think I'm crazy- Regardless of whether what you think, I'm a goddamn cheetah.

I do wonder if I were not in a gaslighting tango with the world. Would my thesis statement of untamed have been, I'm not crazy, I'm a goddamn cheetah. That's what it was. Or would the next phase be, okay, if you think I'm crazy- Regardless of whether what you think, I'm a goddamn cheetah.

No longer arguing. The point is not whether I'm crazy or not. The point is I have an inside that has feelings and experiences. And I am going to create my life. You have a visualization in the book that moved me so much where you just close your eyes and you imagine that everyone around you is a safe person that you only allow people in that make you feel good.

No longer arguing. The point is not whether I'm crazy or not. The point is I have an inside that has feelings and experiences. And I am going to create my life. You have a visualization in the book that moved me so much where you just close your eyes and you imagine that everyone around you is a safe person that you only allow people in that make you feel good.

No longer arguing. The point is not whether I'm crazy or not. The point is I have an inside that has feelings and experiences. And I am going to create my life. You have a visualization in the book that moved me so much where you just close your eyes and you imagine that everyone around you is a safe person that you only allow people in that make you feel good.

And it was so beautiful in terms of like, that's actually how we get to live. No matter if we're right or wrong about our reactions to people, no matter if we're good or bad, we get to decide who feels good and warm to us without justification.

And it was so beautiful in terms of like, that's actually how we get to live. No matter if we're right or wrong about our reactions to people, no matter if we're good or bad, we get to decide who feels good and warm to us without justification.

And it was so beautiful in terms of like, that's actually how we get to live. No matter if we're right or wrong about our reactions to people, no matter if we're good or bad, we get to decide who feels good and warm to us without justification.

Yeah. An important question. I just think over and over again that is in your work is it's not about being a perfect person. The point is not whether he's right or you're right, but whether or not you want to live like this and feel like this. That's right. the second you stop deciding who's right, who's wrong. And if you switch to, do I want to live like this and feel like this? Yeah.