Glennon Doyle
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That's why it's so beautiful to ask yourself, like, what is success? Yeah. I mean, the amount of communities that I've stepped into where the idea of enough is not even a thing.
That's why it's so beautiful to ask yourself, like, what is success? Yeah. I mean, the amount of communities that I've stepped into where the idea of enough is not even a thing.
There are communities in New York and everywhere where you will enter and never, you will never see the end to what the keeping up with the Joneses, the keeping up with the, it just becomes a pursuit of something that is unattainable. And so to actually ask yourself, what is success for this little family? Like, not feeling scarcity. Yeah.
There are communities in New York and everywhere where you will enter and never, you will never see the end to what the keeping up with the Joneses, the keeping up with the, it just becomes a pursuit of something that is unattainable. And so to actually ask yourself, what is success for this little family? Like, not feeling scarcity. Yeah.
There are communities in New York and everywhere where you will enter and never, you will never see the end to what the keeping up with the Joneses, the keeping up with the, it just becomes a pursuit of something that is unattainable. And so to actually ask yourself, what is success for this little family? Like, not feeling scarcity. Yeah.
having a cushion, then you start to make different decisions if your idea of success is different than whatever culture you're in is telling you it is. I think people, I really feel like people are starting to do that. I think the like emperor has no clothes of the treadmill of more and more. It's an empty promise that now is feeling empty.
having a cushion, then you start to make different decisions if your idea of success is different than whatever culture you're in is telling you it is. I think people, I really feel like people are starting to do that. I think the like emperor has no clothes of the treadmill of more and more. It's an empty promise that now is feeling empty.
having a cushion, then you start to make different decisions if your idea of success is different than whatever culture you're in is telling you it is. I think people, I really feel like people are starting to do that. I think the like emperor has no clothes of the treadmill of more and more. It's an empty promise that now is feeling empty.
And I think these are the questions people are starting to ask. And it's really cool. People are gonna make different decisions.
And I think these are the questions people are starting to ask. And it's really cool. People are gonna make different decisions.
And I think these are the questions people are starting to ask. And it's really cool. People are gonna make different decisions.
Yeah. I mean, when you say it, it makes me think of, oh, because that's what we were told is success. And that is actually, like, in my heart, I understand that they need to be able to be independent. But that's not what I want or think of. Like, I want there to be an interdependence. Like, especially because of the fact that we move so much, I am their community.
Yeah. I mean, when you say it, it makes me think of, oh, because that's what we were told is success. And that is actually, like, in my heart, I understand that they need to be able to be independent. But that's not what I want or think of. Like, I want there to be an interdependence. Like, especially because of the fact that we move so much, I am their community.
Yeah. I mean, when you say it, it makes me think of, oh, because that's what we were told is success. And that is actually, like, in my heart, I understand that they need to be able to be independent. But that's not what I want or think of. Like, I want there to be an interdependence. Like, especially because of the fact that we move so much, I am their community.
Like, we are each other's community. And I don't—it doesn't make sense to me. Like, other cultures and other countries don't have that rigid of a structure. I do think maybe that is a thing that we could let go of as the barometer, complete independence by 21.
Like, we are each other's community. And I don't—it doesn't make sense to me. Like, other cultures and other countries don't have that rigid of a structure. I do think maybe that is a thing that we could let go of as the barometer, complete independence by 21.
Like, we are each other's community. And I don't—it doesn't make sense to me. Like, other cultures and other countries don't have that rigid of a structure. I do think maybe that is a thing that we could let go of as the barometer, complete independence by 21.
That's why I was trying to keep the mediocre before she came. That was my whole job. Seriously, every time they'd be in gymnastics and somebody would say, they're getting really good. Do you want to do the full? I was like, oh, no. Let's go swimming. Like mediocre was the goal. I didn't have to give up my weekend. And then this one came and now they're being recruited.
That's why I was trying to keep the mediocre before she came. That was my whole job. Seriously, every time they'd be in gymnastics and somebody would say, they're getting really good. Do you want to do the full? I was like, oh, no. Let's go swimming. Like mediocre was the goal. I didn't have to give up my weekend. And then this one came and now they're being recruited.
That's why I was trying to keep the mediocre before she came. That was my whole job. Seriously, every time they'd be in gymnastics and somebody would say, they're getting really good. Do you want to do the full? I was like, oh, no. Let's go swimming. Like mediocre was the goal. I didn't have to give up my weekend. And then this one came and now they're being recruited.