Glennon Doyle

What was the question?

Yes.

Okay.

So I will tell you a particular familial story that just happened a few days ago that I know is tied to this.

And I know that Abby would give me permission based on a lot of the other things that we just, that I've talked about here, what we're going to do to get our

the sacredness of our relationship back, to get capitalism out of our love, to get work dynamics out of our, anyway, a lot of that.

And Avi was talking about a project she wanted to do which had nothing to do with like relevance or attention or money or any of those metrics that we are taught to strive for and think that the only things that we do are worthy if they win those things.

Basically, she was like, so is it okay if I make no money, right?

She said it more flowery, but that's what she was asking.

Now, when you hear the story, I want you to keep the context of the story, which is that we have a lot of money, like way too, like it's just enough.

So this is different for like, and I'm telling you that so you can see the insanity that is there even when there is no scarcity.

Okay.

So I said, yeah, I think it's okay.

beautiful if you want to remove money as a metric from what we do but that if we're gonna remove that then I also need to remove the metric of wanting more needing more the next thing the next thing because we have arranged our life to only be aimed at what's next

So what are we like?

We need a grandma retirement house.

This is the thing we've made up in our head.

Now our kids are 23 and have no partners.

So what we need is a lake house where lesbian grandmas live that we're going to call the homostead that...

Kids will play corn hole in, I don't know.