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Glennon

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We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Now, when I was in that recent car, I was furious going to work because that's bullshit for me now. I have enough money. So I actually was going to that job for a different reason. Like I couldn't identify the why underneath the activity. And that is what made me furious. It's not the thing you're doing, right? It's not the event.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Now, when I was in that recent car, I was furious going to work because that's bullshit for me now. I have enough money. So I actually was going to that job for a different reason. Like I couldn't identify the why underneath the activity. And that is what made me furious. It's not the thing you're doing, right? It's not the event.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Now, when I was in that recent car, I was furious going to work because that's bullshit for me now. I have enough money. So I actually was going to that job for a different reason. Like I couldn't identify the why underneath the activity. And that is what made me furious. It's not the thing you're doing, right? It's not the event.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

If you're playing tennis because it brings you joy, then that is going to be the antithesis of time poverty. If you're playing tennis for some other reason to keep up with the Joneses or whatever, it's going to add to your time poverty. So How do we get to the story beneath and talk to us about the five whys? Because actually not how we're spending time that matters, is it?

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

If you're playing tennis because it brings you joy, then that is going to be the antithesis of time poverty. If you're playing tennis for some other reason to keep up with the Joneses or whatever, it's going to add to your time poverty. So How do we get to the story beneath and talk to us about the five whys? Because actually not how we're spending time that matters, is it?

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

If you're playing tennis because it brings you joy, then that is going to be the antithesis of time poverty. If you're playing tennis for some other reason to keep up with the Joneses or whatever, it's going to add to your time poverty. So How do we get to the story beneath and talk to us about the five whys? Because actually not how we're spending time that matters, is it?

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

It's the why we're spending that time that matters.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

It's the why we're spending that time that matters.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

It's the why we're spending that time that matters.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Cassie, so this doesn't feel too lofty or esoteric. Can you do this exercise with us? Yes. Instead of just describing it, can you run us through one of them? Like Amanda, would you be willing to? Sure. Experiment with this?

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Cassie, so this doesn't feel too lofty or esoteric. Can you do this exercise with us? Yes. Instead of just describing it, can you run us through one of them? Like Amanda, would you be willing to? Sure. Experiment with this?

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Cassie, so this doesn't feel too lofty or esoteric. Can you do this exercise with us? Yes. Instead of just describing it, can you run us through one of them? Like Amanda, would you be willing to? Sure. Experiment with this?

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Because the story is wrong there sometimes. I have done that too where I've been in those rooms and I feel like, okay, we all came here because somebody told us that we're here to support our kids. And then you make it halfway through a meeting and you think, wait a minute. I feel like this is not even anymore about the kids. And some of us are just trying to prove we're like alphas.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Because the story is wrong there sometimes. I have done that too where I've been in those rooms and I feel like, okay, we all came here because somebody told us that we're here to support our kids. And then you make it halfway through a meeting and you think, wait a minute. I feel like this is not even anymore about the kids. And some of us are just trying to prove we're like alphas.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Because the story is wrong there sometimes. I have done that too where I've been in those rooms and I feel like, okay, we all came here because somebody told us that we're here to support our kids. And then you make it halfway through a meeting and you think, wait a minute. I feel like this is not even anymore about the kids. And some of us are just trying to prove we're like alphas.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Some of us are, we're actually working out social stuff or we're actually working out our fucking childhood wounds in this cafeteria. But Glennon, people are doing that with coaching too. It isn't the vehicle. It's the motivation. Right. But that's why you have to figure it out for you. That's why I was like, oh, I want to help my kid, but I'm going directly to the classroom. I will cut shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Some of us are, we're actually working out social stuff or we're actually working out our fucking childhood wounds in this cafeteria. But Glennon, people are doing that with coaching too. It isn't the vehicle. It's the motivation. Right. But that's why you have to figure it out for you. That's why I was like, oh, I want to help my kid, but I'm going directly to the classroom. I will cut shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

Some of us are, we're actually working out social stuff or we're actually working out our fucking childhood wounds in this cafeteria. But Glennon, people are doing that with coaching too. It isn't the vehicle. It's the motivation. Right. But that's why you have to figure it out for you. That's why I was like, oh, I want to help my kid, but I'm going directly to the classroom. I will cut shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

I'll cut out snowflakes with you, but I will not. By cut shit, she means literally cut things.

We Can Do Hard Things
One Change to Go From Being Time Poor to Time Rich with Cassie Holmes

I'll cut out snowflakes with you, but I will not. By cut shit, she means literally cut things.