Glennon
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Podcast Appearances
First, you're going to sort the feedback and here's what you're going to find. I think there's probably four categories. maybe five now for me, five categories of feed out or feedback for me. The first will be about my looks. Something about how I look. I'm too ugly to do this work. I'm too pretty to do this work. I have too much Botox. I do not have enough Botox. I wear way too much makeup.
I don't have enough makeup. My hair is too gray and I should dye it. If I were a good feminist, I would not dye it. I am too skinny to be talking about bodies. I'm wrinkly. My clothes are ridiculous. It's something about the way that I appear. By the way, as an aside, when we're talking about feedback, let's just not ever talk about other people's bodies at all. Yep.
I don't have enough makeup. My hair is too gray and I should dye it. If I were a good feminist, I would not dye it. I am too skinny to be talking about bodies. I'm wrinkly. My clothes are ridiculous. It's something about the way that I appear. By the way, as an aside, when we're talking about feedback, let's just not ever talk about other people's bodies at all. Yep.
I don't have enough makeup. My hair is too gray and I should dye it. If I were a good feminist, I would not dye it. I am too skinny to be talking about bodies. I'm wrinkly. My clothes are ridiculous. It's something about the way that I appear. By the way, as an aside, when we're talking about feedback, let's just not ever talk about other people's bodies at all. Yep.
Like we have a rule in our family. That's like, mind your own body. Don't talk about other people's bodies.
Like we have a rule in our family. That's like, mind your own body. Don't talk about other people's bodies.
Like we have a rule in our family. That's like, mind your own body. Don't talk about other people's bodies.
It's hurtful and scary to hear about your looks from strangers. It is also completely and totally irrelevant and ridiculous to it's junk mail. If you have that stack of mail in your hand, feed out from the world, anything that has to do with your looks goes in the trash or recycling if you're responsible. Okay. So anything about your appearance, junk mail, you're not taking it inside.
It's hurtful and scary to hear about your looks from strangers. It is also completely and totally irrelevant and ridiculous to it's junk mail. If you have that stack of mail in your hand, feed out from the world, anything that has to do with your looks goes in the trash or recycling if you're responsible. Okay. So anything about your appearance, junk mail, you're not taking it inside.
It's hurtful and scary to hear about your looks from strangers. It is also completely and totally irrelevant and ridiculous to it's junk mail. If you have that stack of mail in your hand, feed out from the world, anything that has to do with your looks goes in the trash or recycling if you're responsible. Okay. So anything about your appearance, junk mail, you're not taking it inside.
The second category, because the culture knows. that women are supposed to be valued for how we look, how we present and our relationships. It will be about my relationships.
The second category, because the culture knows. that women are supposed to be valued for how we look, how we present and our relationships. It will be about my relationships.
The second category, because the culture knows. that women are supposed to be valued for how we look, how we present and our relationships. It will be about my relationships.
It's also the low-hanging fruit. It's from the least creative people. It's from the people who can't think any further than that. Oh, that's good. Because if you could think of something else, you would. It's not something that is worth your time to consider. And the other thing is you can't win.
It's also the low-hanging fruit. It's from the least creative people. It's from the people who can't think any further than that. Oh, that's good. Because if you could think of something else, you would. It's not something that is worth your time to consider. And the other thing is you can't win.
It's also the low-hanging fruit. It's from the least creative people. It's from the people who can't think any further than that. Oh, that's good. Because if you could think of something else, you would. It's not something that is worth your time to consider. And the other thing is you can't win.
If you're trying to respond to criticism in a way that's making you better, it's almost like, how is this going to make me better? You're not going to win that one. It's irrelevant.
If you're trying to respond to criticism in a way that's making you better, it's almost like, how is this going to make me better? You're not going to win that one. It's irrelevant.
If you're trying to respond to criticism in a way that's making you better, it's almost like, how is this going to make me better? You're not going to win that one. It's irrelevant.
It's totally irrelevant. But they also know that they can get to women because women are supposed to value are who we are in relation to other people with relationships. So the second category of criticism that, that I is in the ether for me is I'm a terrible wife. How could Abby ever be with me? I'm so way too much. Why did she marry me? I'm a terrible mom.