Glennon

That's about our, our relationships because these are from people with whom we are not in relationship. We have gotten rid of everything. That's about our personality, right? Because they don't have to hang out with us actually. We're not friends with them. They're not friends with us. Like this is not about our personality. This is about our work. So all of that is gone.

We have the little 20%, but we've also weeded out what's gendered in that. So if it's talking about us being ambitious, if it's talking about us being control freaks, whatever, we've weeded out. We've got this little... 5% left. Little pile. 5% left. It's just a little pile. Now, friends, do we think we're taking those five letters into our house? Because we are not. We are not done sorting.

We have the little 20%, but we've also weeded out what's gendered in that. So if it's talking about us being ambitious, if it's talking about us being control freaks, whatever, we've weeded out. We've got this little... 5% left. Little pile. 5% left. It's just a little pile. Now, friends, do we think we're taking those five letters into our house? Because we are not. We are not done sorting.

We have the little 20%, but we've also weeded out what's gendered in that. So if it's talking about us being ambitious, if it's talking about us being control freaks, whatever, we've weeded out. We've got this little... 5% left. Little pile. 5% left. It's just a little pile. Now, friends, do we think we're taking those five letters into our house? Because we are not. We are not done sorting.

This is one category that I have developed for myself just in the last couple of years. And I think it's been the most important. Well, the question is, we've got these five letters. Are all of these kind letters? Are they respectful? Oh, they have to be kind. Are they respectful? Kind. Yes. Okay, everybody. This has been life-changing for me. I used to listen.

This is one category that I have developed for myself just in the last couple of years. And I think it's been the most important. Well, the question is, we've got these five letters. Are all of these kind letters? Are they respectful? Oh, they have to be kind. Are they respectful? Kind. Yes. Okay, everybody. This has been life-changing for me. I used to listen.

This is one category that I have developed for myself just in the last couple of years. And I think it's been the most important. Well, the question is, we've got these five letters. Are all of these kind letters? Are they respectful? Oh, they have to be kind. Are they respectful? Kind. Yes. Okay, everybody. This has been life-changing for me. I used to listen.

If it's about my work, I'll take it no matter how it's said, no matter how it makes me feel inside, no matter if it's clear this person hates me. If it's about my work, I have to take it. I used to listen to everything people said to me about my work, however they said it. No longer, okay? I am a communicator. That is my work.

If it's about my work, I'll take it no matter how it's said, no matter how it makes me feel inside, no matter if it's clear this person hates me. If it's about my work, I have to take it. I used to listen to everything people said to me about my work, however they said it. No longer, okay? I am a communicator. That is my work.

If it's about my work, I'll take it no matter how it's said, no matter how it makes me feel inside, no matter if it's clear this person hates me. If it's about my work, I have to take it. I used to listen to everything people said to me about my work, however they said it. No longer, okay? I am a communicator. That is my work.

And if you don't communicate without snark or malice to someone you don't even know, I'm not considering your criticism. I do not have to take in things people say to me that are not kind or respectful. And the reason why is because that kind of criticism can't be trusted. Because it's about the person who's doing the criticism. It's not about the person who's receiving it.

And if you don't communicate without snark or malice to someone you don't even know, I'm not considering your criticism. I do not have to take in things people say to me that are not kind or respectful. And the reason why is because that kind of criticism can't be trusted. Because it's about the person who's doing the criticism. It's not about the person who's receiving it.

And if you don't communicate without snark or malice to someone you don't even know, I'm not considering your criticism. I do not have to take in things people say to me that are not kind or respectful. And the reason why is because that kind of criticism can't be trusted. Because it's about the person who's doing the criticism. It's not about the person who's receiving it.

Because there's some kind of like malice or snark or hate in it that can't be trusted. Do you two know what I'm saying about that?

Because there's some kind of like malice or snark or hate in it that can't be trusted. Do you two know what I'm saying about that?

Because there's some kind of like malice or snark or hate in it that can't be trusted. Do you two know what I'm saying about that?

Yeah. It's like you get to have a boundary as an adult. You get to insist upon decency. If you hate me and I can tell that you hate me from the way you're saying something to me, I don't have to let that in. Don't think it's about our highest and best.

Yeah. It's like you get to have a boundary as an adult. You get to insist upon decency. If you hate me and I can tell that you hate me from the way you're saying something to me, I don't have to let that in. Don't think it's about our highest and best.

Yeah. It's like you get to have a boundary as an adult. You get to insist upon decency. If you hate me and I can tell that you hate me from the way you're saying something to me, I don't have to let that in. Don't think it's about our highest and best.

Okay. So maybe kind isn't the right word. isn't it necessary to deliver criticism with some level of respect? Because I want to try to get at what I'm trying to get at here, like to get deeper. I do think this applies to friendships, to corporate America, to everything, because there is a way of communicating criticism to women That actually is about the person's internal misogyny.