Grace

And she just thinks, like, you should want to take care of your parents.

Like, when my husband and I got married, we kind of had this idea, like, now that we're married, like, once we have kids, like, this is our family now.

You know, it's not like we don't care about our extended family and my parents and everything.

It's just we moved three hours away from them and she took care.

issue with that she thought that we should move back home um where she lives and it's like our jobs are here now and um we now have children and they're gonna go to school here you guys have kids together we do yes she still wants you to get divorced she still wants me to get divorced yes how often does she bring this up quite often um the like she she's just she's just always talking shit about your husband

Any chance she can get, pretty much.

To me, it's like... She do it around him?

Not around him, but yeah, not to his face.

He is.

He is aware.

Yeah.

So the biggest, I guess the time everything blew up was right after I had my daughter.

She came to stay with us for a week.

I was freshly postpartum hormonal.

I had postpartum depression, anxiety, the whole nine yards.

And she was coming to stay with us.

And everything aside about my husband that she already didn't like about him, this was the biggest turning point, I think, in our relationship and their relationship.

She came to help when my daughter was a newborn and she took issue with how my husband was taking care of our newborn, which was he would take a large shift during the night so that I could sleep.

And the way he would stay awake is he would play video games and he had the bassinet right next to him the whole time.

If she ever woke up and cried, he'd pause his game and take care of her.