Grace

Okay. Yes. It's a red flag. So then fast forward to we both go to the same beach town. We actually have houses on the same street across from each other. And so when we first started talking, I thought this was going to be, that was like the dream situation. I was like, that's amazing. He was doing a house in a beach town a little bit north with a bunch of his friends for the summer.

And the guy I was talking to before was in that house. And I kind of put the pressure on of like, I want you to tell him because we are actually like... dating now and you need to tell him. So he said he told him, he said it went really poorly so I couldn't really come to the house very often. We couldn't really see each other that much that summer.

And the guy I was talking to before was in that house. And I kind of put the pressure on of like, I want you to tell him because we are actually like... dating now and you need to tell him. So he said he told him, he said it went really poorly so I couldn't really come to the house very often. We couldn't really see each other that much that summer.

And the guy I was talking to before was in that house. And I kind of put the pressure on of like, I want you to tell him because we are actually like... dating now and you need to tell him. So he said he told him, he said it went really poorly so I couldn't really come to the house very often. We couldn't really see each other that much that summer.

And it was kind of like pulling teeth to make plans with him that summer.

And it was kind of like pulling teeth to make plans with him that summer.

And it was kind of like pulling teeth to make plans with him that summer.

Ja.

Ja.

Ja.

Genau, ja. Und er war auch sehr, ich initiierte den Hooking-Up mehr als er. Er war viel weniger in dieser Partie. Und das hat mich immer ziemlich unabhängig gemacht, weil in meinem Vergangenheit hatte ich Leute, die das alles wollten. Und zuerst hat es mir gefallen. Aber dann wurde es mich ziemlich unabhängig gemacht, weil ich mir dachte, warum machen wir das einmal pro Woche oder zwei Wochen?

Genau, ja. Und er war auch sehr, ich initiierte den Hooking-Up mehr als er. Er war viel weniger in dieser Partie. Und das hat mich immer ziemlich unabhängig gemacht, weil in meinem Vergangenheit hatte ich Leute, die das alles wollten. Und zuerst hat es mir gefallen. Aber dann wurde es mich ziemlich unabhängig gemacht, weil ich mir dachte, warum machen wir das einmal pro Woche oder zwei Wochen?

Genau, ja. Und er war auch sehr, ich initiierte den Hooking-Up mehr als er. Er war viel weniger in dieser Partie. Und das hat mich immer ziemlich unabhängig gemacht, weil in meinem Vergangenheit hatte ich Leute, die das alles wollten. Und zuerst hat es mir gefallen. Aber dann wurde es mich ziemlich unabhängig gemacht, weil ich mir dachte, warum machen wir das einmal pro Woche oder zwei Wochen?

Ich dachte, das wäre seltsam.

Ich dachte, das wäre seltsam.

Ich dachte, das wäre seltsam.

I wouldn't say begging, but yes.

I wouldn't say begging, but yes.

I wouldn't say begging, but yes.

Initiating, yes. And then September rolls around. We both are back home. We start seeing each other a bunch more. I'm thinking, oh, this is great. This is what I wanted. The summer doesn't matter. Awesome.