Grandma Gail

I mean, that's really what ends up happening.

As you get more mature, you don't share.

Maybe.

Well, I was nervous because don't forget, I didn't live with somebody.

Oh, all right.

Well, you know, it was a very big chapter for us because we had never lived with anybody.

So the idea of doing this was really, you know, something that was very large and looming.

But we did it and we had hiccups along the way, certainly, that would have been solved if we had lived together perhaps for a few months prior to getting married.

So that's why I do suggest that everybody should live together a little bit before they... Oh, that's a new development.

No, no, no.

Before marriage.

I'm not saying I know I thought every relationship you should live with a guy.

But I think if you're if you're getting married, I think you have to live together a little bit.

And I would that would have been a very, you know, but at 21 years old, I wasn't certainly in those days you would have been thrown out of your your home.

You wouldn't.

I can't imagine you being nervous.

Well, I was nervous that was I doing the right thing?

Yeah, because I really didn't know.

I mean, this was no more than a casual date.

I mean, you really didn't know somebody that well.