Grandma Gail

And I think that's why people who get married today, right?

You know, young couples who go right into marriage, they're doing the learning process that you guys have been doing for two years.

So there's good and bad in both instances.

We certainly didn't have that living in process in the 60s.

Yeah, we moved in and, and we managed.

But you know what, we weren't that

The big difference is you're not that set in your ways at 21 and 23.

You're basically both starting out at the same level of newness.

But the both of you have lived on your own in your own apartments and had your own separate careers naturally, which you still do.

And that becomes a bigger transition because you're very much set in your ways.

So this will have to be something you guys work at as a compromise in certain areas.

And one will have to give in one area and one has to give in another area.

Nothing, you know, it's you're combining two different individuals together.

Well, my life basically changed completely because I left my parents home and my husband and I had to make a home.

But the big difference was I had to assume responsibilities, which, you know, nowadays is very different.

I would be going to the market in the morning and I would be preparing dinner.

And I was actually a part-time teacher the first year we were married.

I did remedial.

You did what?

On seven, I taught at a school for it was actually literacy program.