Grandma Gail

got married.

It's early, naturally.

That wouldn't happen now.

And I probably would have lived with the person I intended to marry once I got engaged.

I still don't like the idea that you live together and not become engaged.

But I do think the living process before you marry is a good idea.

I think people have many loves at many different times in their lives.

And it can change.

You know, you can all of a sudden wake up one morning and say, you know, this isn't working for me.

And that's fine.

And that's what happens.

So that's why so many couples get divorced.

Because all of a sudden you wake up after 20 years of a marriage or 15 years of a marriage and say, oh, God, how do I get out of this?

In the olden times, you didn't get out of the marriage.

The marriage is quickly.

But by the time I was 20 years, it's not quickly.

No, but but when I got married in the 70s, so that's about seven or eight years after I got married, most of my girlfriends got divorced and they left their their husbands.

No, no, no.

I didn't.

I knew a lot of people that grew up in his neighborhood.