Haley

So it's just frustrating because you see this person who's such a good human being and deserves the world and like truly like not just one of those friends where you're like, yeah, whatever.

Like, you know, she's not the best either.

Like she's awesome and could have such a different life and such a different relationship.

And I think it's just so frustrating that she's lost all of her confidence, security, everything.

And just it's like, how do you not see what everyone else is seeing?

Yeah.

I think my boyfriend made a point the other day.

We got off the phone and I was kind of recapping to him.

And he was like, you're so stressed every time you talk to her because you carry people's problems in a way.

You get off this phone call and you don't feel rejuvenated or happy.

It's like you're carrying everything that she just told you.

And I think...

Like I said, she's lost herself even in the sense of like, as a friend.

Like, she doesn't come to visit.

She doesn't, you know, even for her birthday, I'm like, I'll buy you and your kid a plane ticket.

Like, I want to be in both of your lives.

I want to see you.

I try to make that effort.

And I think he pushes her away from her family.

Like, half of her family doesn't talk to her anymore because they...