Haley

hate him so much.

Um, she's like lost all of her friends.

She's changed her career.

So she's at home, like so isolated by herself.

But I think when I sit back and look like, what am I getting out of this friendship for at the same time?

But where do you draw the line of, I want to be your friend and support you because I, I know at some point this will probably all crash and burn and blow up in your face and then you'll really have no one.

But at the same time, it's like, how do you almost associate yourself with someone who

who has these standards and values for themselves.

Probably 10 years plus.

A while.

Yeah, very.

Okay.

Yeah.

The potential of, it's almost like when you're dating, you think of the potential of what someone, instead of taking them, I think at face value.

So that's a good reminder is just to kind of meet her where she's at.

And I guess just, it'd be helpful to have your advice when she calls me because she knows, I think in herself, that's what hurts my heart is like, she's even told me, I don't feel like myself.

I don't know the last time I was happy.

Like

I can't live this way.

And then, so when you share those things where it's almost like, I know she feels trapped and I know she feels what everyone else is seeing, but she's like you said, she's just not at that place where she has.