Hannah Fry

And through your childhood feel that you have this unabiding loving unit.

And what that means for both of them is I think there's quite a strong argument that even by the end of Friends, we see Ross has kind of become Jack and,

And Monica is well on her way to becoming Judy.

Totally.

They both want to have children.

Ross does have children from quite a young age.

Monica wants children from a young age.

They both have one boy, one girl.

Monica ends up moving out to a suburb, probably quite similar to the suburb that she grew up in.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

I think it's about without knowing...

replicating the template for childhood that you were given because even with all its flaws, it was pretty fucking brilliant.

And that's definitely the story of... That's definitely the story of my life.

And you only realise it as you grow up, but when I look at where my mum was exactly in her life at 37, it is so... It is so similar to exactly where I am now.

I mean, to the point, like...

Even to the point where the flat we're sitting in right now, how far away it is from the flat I grew up in.

It's like everything in my life now is kind of... Other than I don't have the kids my mum had then.

But every other thing is almost exactly the same.

Do you find comfort in that?

I mean, I think it's like... It happens in small stages, like...