Hannah Gadsby

And that's hard for people if they don't want to believe that it's not personal.

And that's hard for people if they don't want to believe that it's not personal.

And that's hard for people if they don't want to believe that it's not personal.

No problems.

No problems.

No problems.

No problems. No worries. There's a lot of worry, but no, we're cool.

No problems. No worries. There's a lot of worry, but no, we're cool.

No problems. No worries. There's a lot of worry, but no, we're cool.

Yeah. Before, there was a disconnect of, you know, when I mask, I'm fine. Like people are like, you're normal. You're a little bit quirky, but you're normal. But you can't maintain that. That's exhausting. And so once you're spending your private time with someone, I begin to melt down. So it will be real. reactive.

Yeah. Before, there was a disconnect of, you know, when I mask, I'm fine. Like people are like, you're normal. You're a little bit quirky, but you're normal. But you can't maintain that. That's exhausting. And so once you're spending your private time with someone, I begin to melt down. So it will be real. reactive.

Yeah. Before, there was a disconnect of, you know, when I mask, I'm fine. Like people are like, you're normal. You're a little bit quirky, but you're normal. But you can't maintain that. That's exhausting. And so once you're spending your private time with someone, I begin to melt down. So it will be real. reactive.

I struggle to regulate my emotions when I'm under stress and I have a lot of trauma, big T's and little t's. So, you know, that also affects your ability to regulate. So, you know, I can, I have been, you know, you know, I can frighten people, you know, when I'm just trying to set devastatingly simple needs. If those needs aren't met, then I, you know,

I struggle to regulate my emotions when I'm under stress and I have a lot of trauma, big T's and little t's. So, you know, that also affects your ability to regulate. So, you know, I can, I have been, you know, you know, I can frighten people, you know, when I'm just trying to set devastatingly simple needs. If those needs aren't met, then I, you know,

I struggle to regulate my emotions when I'm under stress and I have a lot of trauma, big T's and little t's. So, you know, that also affects your ability to regulate. So, you know, I can, I have been, you know, you know, I can frighten people, you know, when I'm just trying to set devastatingly simple needs. If those needs aren't met, then I, you know,

can be snappy in a way that is not pleasant for other people and so I was laboring under the you know false idea that you know that perhaps I was borderline abusive but what was happening was my boundaries were not being respected and so I'd be a snappy tom and they're like you know When I'm fine, I'm very easygoing and like, okay. So it just seemed like I was Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde.

can be snappy in a way that is not pleasant for other people and so I was laboring under the you know false idea that you know that perhaps I was borderline abusive but what was happening was my boundaries were not being respected and so I'd be a snappy tom and they're like you know When I'm fine, I'm very easygoing and like, okay. So it just seemed like I was Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde.

can be snappy in a way that is not pleasant for other people and so I was laboring under the you know false idea that you know that perhaps I was borderline abusive but what was happening was my boundaries were not being respected and so I'd be a snappy tom and they're like you know When I'm fine, I'm very easygoing and like, okay. So it just seemed like I was Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde.

And one of the really interesting ones for me is touch because it's overwhelming for me. And in a lesbian relationship, that what? How are you supposed to do that? It's all about the touch, isn't it? Oh, touchy-feely. I'm like, oh, do we have to talk about our feelings again? Yes. Like just a light touch. Like that's a universal standard, isn't it, for like, you know, intimacy.

And one of the really interesting ones for me is touch because it's overwhelming for me. And in a lesbian relationship, that what? How are you supposed to do that? It's all about the touch, isn't it? Oh, touchy-feely. I'm like, oh, do we have to talk about our feelings again? Yes. Like just a light touch. Like that's a universal standard, isn't it, for like, you know, intimacy.