Hayley Vernon

Oh, I'm here for you.

I'm here for you.

What was I going to say to you?

Was that real that you posted about consoling Stefano?

Was that yesterday that that happened?

Was it like in real time?

Okay, cool.

So he broke down after seeing the comments about work?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Which is like a whole different kettle of fish.

challenging that thought and you know I've only known the guy almost three weeks you can't do that overnight it's funny because when I was a content creator I had the same expectation as what Stefano had that I would find someone and then they'd have to be okay with it because work is work and a sexualized relationship with love in it is different two different things right yeah and then I um it just doesn't work like that and look at looking back on it I just realized that

how selfish, I was normalizing something that just isn't normal.

And our society has gone so far over to one extreme, this like hyper-sexualization of making an income from sexual activity so normal that it's kind of like this woke mentality.

I'm trying to like put it into words, but we've gone so far over where we're expecting these

out of the ordinary, very not normal situations to be looked at as like normality.

And it's a hell of a lot of pressure for someone else on the other side to put up with.

And it also like, it pushes a lot of trauma onto the other person as well.

And it just, I think it minimizes the person that's coming into the relationship exactly like how they're feeling and what they're going through.

And just like, I kind of see it as selfish.