Hayley

Really?

She's onto something, yeah.

What if you're both reading the same book?

Now, if you're both into personal development, I think it's a great thing.

But if one is and the other isn't, that's when you're going to start to get into trouble.

Because often with personal development, we see it on our show.

They're very, very enthusiastic about it and they want to talk about it and they want to deep dive and read new books and go to presentations and workshops.

So if you've got someone like that, you really want the other partner to be into it as well.

If they're not, then it's going to probably create problems because you've not got the same values.

Yeah, they might say to you, listen, you just need to change your script then.

Is that really what you want to be doing right now?

Let's talk about your future self, shall we?

Yeah.

Well, I think...

You have to be, if you're going to be in a relationship that's healthy, you've got to be able to say, this is what I want.

And you shouldn't be frightened of that.

Correct.

I would say you need to look at whether this person's right for you because they should be embracing what you're asking.

Oh, that's gorgeous.

That's beautiful.