Heather Monahan

If you're not gonna do that, start hanging with different people.

Start hanging with people who are light years ahead of you.

Start getting into different discussions with different people with different perspectives so that you can start turning those questions on yourself and self-reflecting, right?

So it's really important not to stay in those same circles, not to just sit with your own thoughts because we will have blind spots that we aren't aware of.

And until we become aware, we can't fix them.

This woman fixed her so fast.

It was crazy to see.

I also loved that here she was out at a work conference.

And not only was she stepping into fear yet again, stepping out of her comfort zone, going up to speak to a super high level executive and engage in conversation to advance herself.

Kudos to you.

And every moment we're either creating confidence or chipping away at it.

And she was throwing herself into the fire.

Thank goodness she did.

had this amazing discussion only to find out that she was undervaluing herself.

That means this super high level executive was looking at her in the eyes and saying, you are worth more than you even see.

Okay, so yet again, she was getting perspective from someone who was light years ahead of her.

saying you are more valuable than you even understand.

Okay, those are the moments you run back home and you write it down because you can't forget that.

Okay, someone who's light years ahead of me just told me this.

That means I need to raise the bar on myself, raise the bar on the expectations for me, raise the bar on the asks for me.