Hillary McVeigh

You are fully free.

You are deeply connected.

You're connected to the collective.

You're connected to what wants to go through you.

Because giving and serving isn't supposed to drain you.

Think about it.

The universe is in constant giving and sharing.

The sun is in constant giving and sharing.

Nature is in constant giving and sharing.

If it is draining you, it's probably polluted with attachment.

You're doing it because you want someone to appreciate you, or you're doing it because then you'll be a good person, or you're doing it because you don't want to be rejected.

You're saying yes because you're people pleasing.

I think that just takes more than it gives.

When your giving depends on another, you are just going to feel burnt out.

You are going to feel taken advantage of.

And this is where we want to take this a step further.

Even if your main focus is to serve others,

It will not be long lasting fulfillment because it will always be externally dependent.

It will always be flimsy.

It will always be next thing, next thing, next thing.