Designed As You Human Design Podcast
MASTER YOUR MIND: Powerful to Finally Understand How to Consciously Create Your Reality
21 Dec 2025
In this deep and transformative solo episode, Hillary takes you into the heart of what it truly means to master your mind so you can consciously create the reality you are meant to live in. This isn’t mindset work in the surface-level sense. This is a complete reframing of what the mind actually is, what it’s doing all day long, and how it shapes your frequency, your behaviour and your destiny.We explore the architecture of your inner world: • The limited brain – why it can only perceive a fraction of what’s actually available and how that limitation is part of the human experience • The storytelling mind – the narratives, loops, fears and “default settings” that become the lens through which you see the world • The witnessing consciousness – the vast, spacious awareness behind the mind that allows you to choose, direct and elevate your internal stateHilary unpacks how these three layers work together and how misunderstanding them keeps so many people locked in fear, confusion and stagnation.Inside This Episode You’ll Learn:• Why your perception is not passive – it is creating the world you experience • How your thoughts emit a frequency that determines what you receive • Why doubt, fear and “stuckness” are illusions of the mind, not reflections of who you are • How the subconscious mind lives in the body, and why nervous system safety is essential for manifestation • The difference between mental resistance and intuitive wisdom • How to interrupt conditioned narratives and choose a higher perspective in the moment • The energetic impact of a single reframe – and why this is scientifically measurable • How to separate your identity from temporary thoughts so you no longer collapse into old patterns • How to see fear as a sign of expansion rather than a sign to stop • Why synchronicity, intuition and possibility become more accessible when you shift frequency • What it means to be fully committed yet non-attached • Why your desires feel unsafe to the mind and how to make them familiar to the body • The difference between solving a problem from the mind versus dissolving it from higher awareness • How to move through resistance and build self-trust through small, brave, regulated steps • The identity transformation required for conscious creation • How to reclaim sovereignty over your inner world so your outer world shifts accordinglyIf you’re ready to take radical responsibility for your inner atmosphere, elevate your frequency, and step into a new timeline of possibility, this episode will land deeply.Want to dive deeper, explore more here: ENROLMENTS NOW OPEN FOR SPRING/AUTUM COHORT: BECOME A HUMAN DESIGN READER AND CREATE YOUR DREAM CAREER & BUSINESS with the Advanced Human Design Certification POWER PRACTICE AND TIMELINE SHIFTING PODCAST CREATE SPACE: Course for future conscious entrepreneurs to clarify & launch their most expansive business offering, their way. 1:1 Breakthrough Session with Hillary PATH TO PURPOSE: A roadmap to uncovering and stepping into your purpose, mission and life's work. Instagram Get your free Human Design Chart
Chapter 1: What does it mean to master your mind?
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Hello, my loves. Welcome back to the Designed As You podcast with your host. My name is Hilary and I am really excited to share today's topic. It's coming to the end of the year and I think we're all feeling in wind down mode. Well, I can speak for myself. I've had a big year and I'm sure a lot of us, it's been a nine year, the year of the snake.
There's been a lot of transformation for many of you listening. And I'm so, so, so grateful. I actually just want to take a moment to share my gratitude and my love and honoring you for receiving this year from this podcast. It does not go missed or it does not go unfelt when you share words, when you share a voice note to me, when you share your love for the podcast.
As you can probably tell, I love to share on here. Like I actually feel a little bit emotional even thinking about it. It's been such a beautiful way for me to feel expressed in the world. I love to just come on here, especially with the solo episodes. And I'm really grateful that you've liked the solo episodes this year.
Because it felt like I could just have free reign to share what I wanted to talk about, the things that I've been speaking about. There's nothing like to, like, be able to come on here and, like, words and thoughts and ideas and teachings and wisdom. Like, this is my jam. This is...
My art, this is how I love to share and give love and different perspectives and things that have helped me and what I know to be true, downloads, channeling, all of this. It's such an honor to share with you in this space. And thank you from the bottom of my heart for receiving. And it was even just...
you know, if I'm really honest as well, it was nerve wracking to be able to share more than just human design. You know, I love human design. It will always be such a foundational part of my work, but it's not all of my work. And more channeling is coming through, more wisdom is coming through, more teachings is coming through.
And I'm really excited for the new year to continue building and to continue to give in a really overflow way. I'm very activated and inspired and in love with this work and with you all. And I'm just really excited and honored. So thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And I have a lot planned for the new year. I really want to do more live events. I really want to meet you all in person.
If I could go all over the world for you all that we'll do what we can as we build our way there. And just more ways that I can share this wisdom that's changed my life and also what's just brewing and developing within me. I feel very humble and very devoted. Today's episode, I really felt called to speak around the mind. We're coming to the end of the year and The mind can be loud.
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Chapter 2: How does perception influence our reality?
You don't manifest from what you say. You manifest from who you are. It is quite literally become her or have the identity shift of I am the person who operates this. I am a person who trusts. I'm a person who is calm. I am a person who gives generously. I'm a person who shares what she wants to express. Like you become that person. You become that identity. And that then creates trust.
a ramification in the reality around you. If you believe you're a goddess or a wise channel, just watch how life will reconfigure around you. So it is the frequency aspect, but it's also the inspired action from that place. And it's also creating familiarity in your nervous system of what is possible.
So sometimes it means that you stretch yourself into that, but you start to show yourself and then you're in relationship with life. You're in relationship with what's possible rather than in relationship with a limited mind. So fully committed and fully unattached. When we are attached to outcomes, we are a prisoner. We give up and do our bit.
We do our step forward and let the universe deliver from there. So this is why I want to speak about understanding the true nature of the mind, because this is it. This is it. When I finally got this... When I got it, I was like, wow, okay. You know, because, for example, like years and years ago, I was doing all the right spiritual things, all the good things.
But what was the energy that it was coming from? And I do think that, yes, absolutely, there's a time and a place and there's a progression that happens. But I was definitely operating from fear and from lack. Now, how I have been able to shift the frequency around fear and around doubt, and this is so important because fear and doubt is part of the mind's expression.
The mind loves a little fear and doubt because what does it need? It needs safety. It loves to be familiar. So if you're stepping into change or if you're taking a risk or if you're doing something different, it will come up. And now I see it as such a good sign. So when I see fear and doubt as a good sign, what is my frequency like? My frequency is like, cool, there's something here for me.
Yes, I honor that a part of me is afraid right now. Note, I say a part of me is afraid right now, not I'm afraid. There is a part of me that is afraid because then it doesn't create an identity around it.
It's so funny. We create identities around things and then hold on to them about things that aren't actually benefiting us. So that creates a different energy around it. If I say, wow, I have doubt right now because, you know, bringing into Kabbalah teachings and how I even use with IFS parts work is, wow, there is an opponent energy right now that's trying to make me doubt.
It must mean that there is a big capacity for light on the other side. I joke, and I recently shared this on the retreat, you know, when things would happen and life would happen or, You know, Bluetooth wouldn't work. I just have a little laugh of like resistance. It's going to be a powerful lesson or it's going to be a powerful workshop. And it totally shifts the energy.
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Chapter 3: What are the three layers of the mind discussed?
Like I shouldn't be doing this from Bali. This is really bad. What is the energy that comes through with that? I would come through and how would I emit there? Would I still have authority? Number one, would I get straight back into my channeling? Number two, would I be an example for the students in the certification? Absolutely not. Yeah.
It would just remove my authority and remove the power behind my words. But what did I do instead? I was like, wow, it must have been so powerful. Again, it's just a story. Like either way, it's a story. Me even just saying, wow, it must be so powerful. The energy went out because the opponent energy, it was like so much lightness that darkness needed to come in.
Because again, we live in a dualistic world. There is going to be equal energies of both. If there is so much light, there is also going to be darkness and And just to normalize that and not think anything is wrong. So I came back on being like, wow, that must have been powerful resistance there. Everyone had a laugh and I got straight back in.
It was like I literally picked up from the last word that I left, came straight back in. You know how usually when something happens, you would struggle to remember where you were or what was the last thing. No, I went straight back in, finished the end of the sentence and kept going. And yeah, because I chose to see it like that, I was like, wow, this is so powerful.
Let's get straight back on and keep this flowing. So yes, your thoughts shift and change the action and the behavior, but importantly, it shifts your frequency around it. And your frequency is what creates your reality. And so, as you've heard me say so many times recently on this podcast, and I just really want it to drill in because this is what all the scientists are saying.
This is what all the spiritualists are saying. I hope that we truly see that when we give a reframe, when you have a different perspective around something, it's so important. It is so important. It's not silly. It's not naive. It's not what have you, it's quite literally going to change your energy around something.
It's going to change your frequency, which creates your life, which creates how you show up, which creates what you receive back. And, you know, using that example, like my clients loved that session. So when we talk about our thoughts or the stories, they are what create our perception. And what I really wanted to speak to today is doubt, fear, and also this illusion of being stuck.
Now, when we have any disempowering story, for example, like being stuck or being full of doubt or being afraid, we need to remember that this is not true self-awareness. So this is the mind and this is the mind story. Now, the mind, as I said, is just a bunch of words. It's just a bunch of thoughts. It's just a bunch of perspective.
And can you see how malleable or how interchangeable your perspectives and your thoughts can be? Because even in that example of when the internet went out, I could have easily chosen one of the two or another 500 options and quite literally created my perspective that then created the reality.
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Chapter 4: How can we interrupt conditioned narratives?
Magic is just real life because it's just life. It's just that, you know, things happen and opportunities present out of nowhere or, you know, people that you could love the most in your life you may have not even met yet. The ideas that you're here to share and even maybe get a legacy from you haven't even stumbled across yet. You know, life is long. Life is long.
Yes, we say it's short, but it's also very long. And that doesn't mean something has to be wrong where you are now. You know, when we think and talk about future expansion and our highest self and our desires and our evolution, it's not because you are broken now. It's not because life is inadequate now. It's because you're a human having an evolutionary experience. Evolution is a natural law.
Nature is constantly evolving. Everything is constantly evolving. Nothing is ever staying the same. So nothing is inadequate when you're just in a different stage of an evolution. If we think of a flower, it's not inadequate when it's a seed versus when it's a sprout versus when it's a bud versus when it's in bloom. It simply just moves through the seasons and it grows. And that's the same for us.
So when there is this story of, let's use imposter syndrome from the mind, We need to just remember that it just means you're on the precipice of your expansion. It just means that you're doing something new and you might want some practice.
This is where we just go so far down the illusion of the mind stories that we end up believing that somehow we are out of integrity because you feel a bit nervous to do something at first. Or you've only done it for a little bit of time, so you don't feel 100% ready. That doesn't mean you are an imposter. I don't even like that term, to be honest.
So your mind is having an experience at every moment that is creating your perception in which you see the world and then reality. So the key is to witness the mind stories and just like not being caught up in it. Nothing is as it seems. It's how you see it. This world, everything in this world has endless possibilities of meanings. You get to decide. Like even I recently did this.
It was two retreats ago where we started to look at different things around us and was like, what are different meanings that could be for these things that we just call it? This is what it is.
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Chapter 5: What is the difference between mental resistance and intuitive wisdom?
We've never given it another option. And so your natural state of your mind is clear. It is spacious. It is calm. I use the analogy of think of the sky. The characteristic of the sky is clear. Yes, clouds can come and obscure the sky, but it doesn't change the true nature of the sky.
So the same thing is that thoughts and emotions can obscure our inner clarity, but it doesn't mean it changes its true essence, its true nature. So problems begin in the mind and they're also received in the mind. And the funny thing that we often do is that we try and solve problems from the same mind that created it.
So we want to be able to, I guess, transcend the problem by coming into the awareness of what the actual thought is. So instead of trying to solve doubt from a doubtful mind, you come in from a higher awareness. This is where my power practice comes in, where you can pause. What an opportunity right now I'm here to witness this because you come from a third party perspective then.
So you come from a higher awareness. And then you embody and you move forward from your truest, highest self. So don't try and solve fear from a fearful mind or don't try and, you know, feel qualified from an imposter mind. We need to come from a higher perspective. And firstly, you have to just be aware. Sometimes we're not going to be aware of our thoughts, right?
Five minutes later, five hours later, five days later. Sometimes it's going to take a little bit longer and that's okay. But it's about whatever point you wake up to be like, wait, is this just a thought or wait, I'm just going to like have to bring a different perspective to this right now. Whenever that happens, it doesn't matter.
Often it can happen just like sleeping on it, coming back to it on a fresh day. You have an opportunity to come with a higher awareness so you can transcend the problem. You know, I recently, who did I hear from? It was instead of solve your problems, dissolve your problems because they don't actually exist.
They're just a story from your mind because there are no problems when you realize that you are infinite divine life force potential, all love and all knowing. And so suffering arises not from life directly, but from how the mind interprets it.
So when you could come from a higher awareness of like, hey, wow, this doubt or this fear or this feeling of being judged, is there a part of me that's like judges myself around this? Or this is being invited for, you know, everything is always our greatest teacher. So if someone's angry at you, it's a teacher for you to practice patience or to practice forgiveness, right?
And so it's never for the other person. It's for you because, again, your frequency shifts it. And yes, you can have your moments of sadness and anger and frustration. Absolutely. But we never wanted to just be reactive because then you are always reacting to life.
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