Hillary McVeigh

So we need to release this illusion of control of I have to have everything perfectly done and every T crossed and I dotted.

No, people are connecting to your energy and that's going to come from that nervous system regulation when you have capacity to hold it.

And when you are in this illusion of control, and this is this whole idea of like,

If I don't make it perfect, it won't be okay.

You know, I am somehow separate from the divine perfection is what it's really saying.

And as I said, it's the biggest lie we've all been sold.

As well, you're very controllable if you are worrying about things that don't matter.

And

What happens energetically when you are in this place, as I said, it destabilizes your nervous system.

You're in fight or flight.

You're in a contracted state.

You're not thinking clearly.

You're not thinking creatively.

And attachment distorts your frequency.

Attachment, you know, we have all seen that energy where you can feel like a desperation energy.

You can feel a clinging energy.

You can feel inauthentic energy.

We are all energy readers.

We are all energy readers.

and just stress and control and worry it just pushes away what you desire and so you need to ask yourself what is behind this attachment what is behind this control because then you can actually release it because it's all well and good to be like okay I'll just stop doing that but there's an underlying fear there there's an underlying fear and it's something to even just ask yourself of if I let go what would happen I'll even ask you this now if I let go what would happen what's the first thing that comes to your mind